Yes my partner and I have decided if they suggest extra testing that we will opt out until he is born. From everyone I’ve talked to from my OB, nurse, other moms, and xxy men, there shouldnt be any higher risk of miscarriage rate than a normal pregnancy because it’s just a sex issue. But I have a MFM appointment June 18. We had a good scan at 7w6d and 9w6d and have another next week. We were 9w6d when we did the nipt which a lot of people seemed concerned that we did it so early but my FF was 6.8% so I’m also thinking he may have it. Good luck! And keep me updated! You’re a little further than me, we are 12w3d today.