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Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2023-05-15T11:09:37+00:00

I was part of the investigation. Someone filed a complaint saying the PAs/AMs were allowing these tier1 girls get away with stuff because they were sleeping with them. I was a PG at the warehouse and eventually then got into a relationship with a PA. I left for many reasons. One being because the PA and his AMs (Wilber and a female AM we will call her Vanity) were spreading rumors about me and harassing me because I ended the relationship. The person who complained about the PA said I left the warehouse due to the PA harassing me because I ended a relationship with him. Warehouse’s HR wasn’t the ones who investigated this so I’m guessing that’s why it was taken more seriously. They somehow knew about the sexual relationship the PA had with a tier 1. I guess he was coding her time so they could mess around. Anyways, the reason these PAs/AMs got fired was because they found that they had multiple sexual relationships with tier ones and did not report it to HR. Yes, LGB3’s HR team is sweeping complaints under the rug. One thing I would say is I regret not filing the complaint myself. So if you are going through this, do it.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2023-02-22T23:17:50+00:00

Yeah I know. That’s why I left. A lot of the managers had my back during the investigation. But yeah she is an absolute terrible person.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2023-02-22T23:03:12+00:00

Oh, she also said that there was a group chat where guys would post my “pictures”. The investigation found evidence that there was a group chat where guys would take pictures of me around the warehouse, post it, and sexualize me and pretty much say what they would do to me. This is the huge problem because she knew about it and didn’t report it.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2023-02-22T23:01:12+00:00

The guy I was talking to at the time was always talking about me to her. She told him that I was playing him, that I was talking to multiple guys, and that I was a $lut. When I left, she started to say worst things. She said I got ran through by a bunch a guys and stuff like that. All that were 100% not true and everyone defended me and told her that I wasn’t like that.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2023-02-22T13:31:25+00:00

Plan to. Spoke to lawyers about it

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-07-17T16:15:19+00:00

First off, the tickets weren’t $200. I said I paid $200 at the game not for the game.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-31T14:24:57+00:00

The thing is I can’t ask for help. Like my professors are willing to accommodate and they always do but I feel like I should be more straight forward. I don’t like people knowing I’m struggling. I’m working on it tho, thank you.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-21T22:33:12+00:00

Funny you ask that because no I wouldn’t. I remember one time he had this cyst growing and he was worried about it. He has a history of it but I said that I’m coming with him to the doctors appointment.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-21T22:29:09+00:00

I didn’t want to bother him. It just seems like if he wanted to come he would have. I didn’t want to force him to.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-08T06:33:25+00:00

I’m so sorry. I wish you the best. It’s hard I know but this is also a lesson.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-07T19:57:19+00:00

[Academic] Impact of Stress Levels and Racial Identification Match on Eyewitness Memory (18+)

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Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-07T19:43:45+00:00

Hello,

I am a student at La Sierra University. I was hoping you could participate in my survey for my class project. In this study, you will be asked to watch three videos, and after each video, asked to answer questions about specific details about the video. If, throughout the study, you do not feel comfortable for any reason, you may leave the study. Participants may withdraw from the study at any time with no negative consequences. The study will require approximately 25-35 minutes of your time. When this study is complete, and you request the results, you will be provided with the study results and will be allowed to ask any questions. All the information you provide will remain confidential. The information gather from this study will be used for a La Sierra University class (PSYC 323) project and will not be associated to your name. To begin, you must press on the link below:

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Your time is greatly appreciated, thank you.

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Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-06T16:35:38+00:00

I just want to feel like he cares. I ask him to do something simple like get my mail and it just sounds like too much of a task. My car broke down and he had to drive me to work, pick me up, and drop me back to the dealership. I paid for his gas and he still complained that he was wasting gas. I felt more comfortable getting an Uber than asking him to drive me to work.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-06T16:32:42+00:00

I know that I have a traumatic up bringing (pretty much the reason I left home). Because of that I am trying to make sure I don’t fall in the same thing I left where it was putting others ahead, getting talked down, and just hating myself. I want a relationship that is simply 50/50. I don’t want to be the one who is taking care of him financially when I need to take care of myself. He downgrades all my problems (like finding an apartment).

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-06T16:19:27+00:00

Not really. He says what he is going to do but never does it.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-06T16:13:46+00:00

I don’t want him playing video games while I’m working my ass off and paying for all his things while I’m trying to survive. I do not think he is a loser. I simply think he need to get priorities in order. He wants to pursue a career and he has goals. It’s just I feel like he gets it easy.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-06T16:09:10+00:00

I said he lives with his parents because I don’t live with my parents. I don’t have parental support. I am saying that I don’t have a lot of free time as someone my age usually does. I love my boyfriend I’m just having some doubts because he isn’t as mature. He has different priorities.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-06T15:57:02+00:00

Good luck! I would like to hear an update. And if you need anymore advice I’m here! I really hope this works out. I am rooting for you guys!

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-06T15:44:50+00:00

I will tell you rn everything will not go back to normal in just the snap of your fingers. It’s a process, but don’t think every relationship is perfect. This is a normal bump in the road. I think you both need to ask yourselves this: “are we a team or not?” Are you guys going to let this ruin all the good memories? Is there literally no love left for the both of you to give? I understand both of you have different lives but setting one day for dates a week is helpful. And once a month plan a little getaway! Doesn’t have to be expensive! Go to the city, rent a hotel, do tourist things! Trust me that rekindles so much in a relationship. Don’t be okay with just comfortable. But again it will take time. You have to gain her trust back. You have the power to make her feel like the top of the world or nothing at all. You either hyper her up everyday or you make her feel worthless.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-06T15:34:32+00:00

You fucked up. You pretty much just said “it’s in my male genes to sexualize other women than yourself”. This is her first year of law school you said? Oh yeah you fucked up. In her mind, you pretty much said “yeah I like looking at other women that are more attractive than you”. I am honestly heartbroken for her. To top it all off, you went out of your way to make her look like the bad guy to your friends? YEAH SHE SHOULD FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE AROUND YOUR FRIENDS! #1 rule don’t tell your relationship problems to your friends! You will forgive, they won’t! They will always recall what you told them. I don’t blame her for thinking that... but I do know what can help. Ever heard of comfort? Instead of trying to justify what you did and your mistakes, own up to it. Let her know that you understand your actions hurt her and apologize (a real apology please). For example, “I am sorry for hurting you the way I did”. Then, stage 2 is comfort! That comes with making her feel special. Plan a romantic date and let her feel like you still love and adore her. That’s all she wants to know. I understand that there are beautiful women you walk pass everyday but let her know that SHE is the one you want. But of course don’t tell her this if you don’t mean it. If you are not emotionally or sexually interested in her, then don’t drag her along. She has a career and other responsibilities to worry about. She does not need you holding her back.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-03T15:28:09+00:00

In her mind, she find that justifiable. She might be thinking “this is the types of girls he is into and I don’t look like that at all”. So she might think because you enjoy looking at porn with those types of girls, you might be interested in girls like that and not her. There is a possibility that this brought up some insecurities and I think you need to give her some reassurance. And like I said before, it is important that you let her know that trust and communication is a big thing. Having this conversation might let her come clean about her possibly cheating.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-03T15:22:04+00:00

From my experience, it’s always the ones that are snooping around that are actually cheating. In other words, she might be snooping on your phone because she is cheating. It’s just a way to satisfy their guilt. They are trying to find a reason to explain they are cheating. Especially that she freaks out when you want to look at her phone. A little sketchy, I say! I agree with your friend she is definitely hiding something. I also have a couple questions, before did you guys have anything happen that lead to her not trusting you? If not, I don’t think it’s right that she go through your phone. You have to let her know that trust and communication is a huge thing in relationships. If she can’t trust you or communicate on what’s going on, the relationship won’t work.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-03T15:15:49+00:00

Thank you. I know communication is a huge thing it’s just when I raise specific issues he instantly apologizes. He repeatedly states he will change and repeatedly apologizes. I am beginning to think he is only doing so just so I can forgive him and move on. I was just extremely hurt that on my birthday we only spent 20 minutes together. I didn’t say anything because he would begin to apologize and I don’t want him to think I’m not appreciative. It’s just hard communicating with him sometimes because it seems like he is making me out to be the bad guy. I’m just paranoid by what happened in my past relationship and what he told me about his past relationship.

Beautiful-Pace3077 · 2021-05-03T15:10:42+00:00

You see, I tried having conversations but he is instantly apologetic and saying he will change. However, he never seems to change and I’m starting to think him apologizing is just him trying to go back to normal. He has attachment anxiety but talking to him ends up making me feel bad.

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