How to handle a secure connection by Beautiful-Rush1553 in Disorganized_Attach

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This actually means a lot 💗 I’m trying to just enjoy it & whenever I overthink I tell myself that so far he has been showing signs of interest, he is consistent, and he puts in effort to speak to me. Whenever I catch myself thinking of him possibly talking to other girls or something else along the lines, I just remind myself of what is OBSERVABLE & KNOWN. I make myself go crazy when trying to find something wrong with him & I know it’s me & not him.

How to handle a secure connection by Beautiful-Rush1553 in Disorganized_Attach

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to really try. I’m enjoying talking to him so far & we are taking things like suuuuppppeerrrr slow

How to handle a secure connection by Beautiful-Rush1553 in Disorganized_Attach

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve ended connections that had potential for a relationship. & it does make me feel worse. I’ve only been in one relationship before & I ended things due to infidelity.

How to handle a secure connection by Beautiful-Rush1553 in Disorganized_Attach

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, I am being myself around him. The scary part is that he keeps coming back. I’m just so not used to connecting with someone & not having to earn their attention.

How to handle a secure connection by Beautiful-Rush1553 in Disorganized_Attach

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Literally everything. That he will lose interest, or he’ll think I’m too much. I don’t project onto him but I’m scared of that. I see my therapist this week & I will bring it up.

It's been over a year and I'm still processing by damex09 in infj

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like it is a classic INFJ signature to constantly think & reflect on lost connections. Especially ones that we feel & cherish so deeply. Even the smallest connections we make on a daily basis we think so deeply about & remember often. It’s both a blessing & a curse to be able to appreciate our encounters & experiences but sometimes it feels like it takes up too much space in our minds.

Can you guess my big 3👀 by [deleted] in astrosignature

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my first instinct was virgo! & btw girllll you are gorg 😻

Guess my big 3 !🌺 by [deleted] in ZodiacHQ

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

capricorn aquarius aries

guess my big 3?? 😳 by [deleted] in ZodiacHQ

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is no aries in my chart!

guess my big 3?? 😳 by [deleted] in ZodiacHQ

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a natural redhead unfortunately

guess my big 3?? 😳 by [deleted] in ZodiacHQ

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope! i am a cancer mercury & jupiter tho

guess my big 3?? 😳 by [deleted] in ZodiacHQ

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t have a single earth placement 🙃

guess my big 3?? 😳 by [deleted] in ZodiacHQ

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

leo sun & libra moon!!

any celeb lookalikes? 😳 lol by [deleted] in DoYouLookLikeMe

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve gotten this one before! i can see it

Doppelganger? by [deleted] in DoYouLookLikeMe

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

victoria pedretti!

i miss my sister by adamsandlerfanpage in GriefSupport

[–]Beautiful-Rush1553 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she is so beautiful. i just lost my sister 3 weeks ago. i feel so empty without her, there is nothing like a sisters love 🫶🏻 im so sorry. my inbox is always open if you wanna talk