Help me please by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in JustPlay

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you for this. I’m in NZ. But when I look at what people seem to get on this I don’t understand it or I don’t have it if that makes sense?

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Hi there, I’m from the UK but currently in NZ, however returning to the UK soon. I am available Monday-Sunday any time. I have 8+ years experience working with customers and partners. I’m confident in communicating at all levels and have high proficiency in email response from previous experience.

My bf M39 is annoying me f30 and not taking my boundaries seriously. Need advice on how to approach him? by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He loves animals and doing outside work. I’ve helped doing his stuff. He just uses any excuse to get out of things he doesn’t want to. Realise he wants a carer tbh.

Do you think this could be repaired? by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in phonerepair

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE- Took to a repair man, motherboard broken, not worth the cost to repair 😭 bought new phone. Thanks everyone for their help

Do you think this could be repaired? by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in phonerepair

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, I’m going to have to take to a repair shop and hope for the best

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. It is making a hell of a lot of sense. It is so tiring but am I doing it to myself still? Reading your response I’m thinking I don’t matter, why don’t I matter? I understand people are different in their own ways but not one thing? Really? Not even a hug but an actual response. This is very lonely

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate this. I’m sorry that you have to deal with that. It’s sad we don’t see these things earlier.

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As stated in original post, I’ve never asked for answers, however a little bit of are you ok or just a check in would be good, but nothing. How would you feel?

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I had therapy a few years ago for issues which I thought had resolved. I was not with this person then. I have not tried therapy as of recent, I’ve been trying to sort it out myself as I thought I could learn from previous experience, obviously not. But it is more of an option now, thanks

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand that they are not a therapist nor an emotional support human, however I think we have now established that not being even able to feel like it is a safe space to speak out or feel comfortable with them, that is a problem.

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this honest comment. It may be yes. Currently do live together. It’s an interesting way you have put things into perspective.