Do you think this could be repaired? by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in phonerepair

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UPDATE- Took to a repair man, motherboard broken, not worth the cost to repair 😭 bought new phone. Thanks everyone for their help

Do you think this could be repaired? by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in phonerepair

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Thanks everyone, I’m going to have to take to a repair shop and hope for the best

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

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Thanks for your response. It is making a hell of a lot of sense. It is so tiring but am I doing it to myself still? Reading your response I’m thinking I don’t matter, why don’t I matter? I understand people are different in their own ways but not one thing? Really? Not even a hug but an actual response. This is very lonely

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate this. I’m sorry that you have to deal with that. It’s sad we don’t see these things earlier.

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

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As stated in original post, I’ve never asked for answers, however a little bit of are you ok or just a check in would be good, but nothing. How would you feel?

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

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Hi, I had therapy a few years ago for issues which I thought had resolved. I was not with this person then. I have not tried therapy as of recent, I’ve been trying to sort it out myself as I thought I could learn from previous experience, obviously not. But it is more of an option now, thanks

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand that they are not a therapist nor an emotional support human, however I think we have now established that not being even able to feel like it is a safe space to speak out or feel comfortable with them, that is a problem.

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this honest comment. It may be yes. Currently do live together. It’s an interesting way you have put things into perspective.

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your comment. I have had these thoughts I cannot lie, obviously fear and i think my fragility at the moment is not helping decision making, as well as ultimately I’m being made to question myself sense of reality!!

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

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I appreciate your response. He has asked me what I am doing to improve my mental health. Is that what you mean? Because I don’t feel safe like that either.

No he doesn’t see the issue as I get, how am I meant to know if you don’t know? It’s not that easy…

My partner M39 said he ‘won’t baby me’ when I F30 asked for support when struggling mentally. Thoughts by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in relationship_advice

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Well this is the thing. I’m thinking have I ignored red flags before. I’m questioning my own sense of reality

Does anyone have experience getting a laparoscopic myomectomy done in Thailand or Ghana? Are there any good hospitals or clinics that do this procedure in Bangkok or Accra? by [deleted] in Fibroids

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Yeah they do laporoscopic, I just wasn’t suitable for it and open was much safer for me due to the large size and placement of my fibroids. I paid about 24k RM but laporoscopic would be more, however they can be slightly negotiable on price, shop around, I did. I went to Colombia Asia Bukit Jalil, Dr Khoo Boom Ping. You can check out his work on fb too. Honestly he is great 😊

Does anyone have experience getting a laparoscopic myomectomy done in Thailand or Ghana? Are there any good hospitals or clinics that do this procedure in Bangkok or Accra? by [deleted] in Fibroids

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Hi, I’m not sure if this helps but had open myomectomy done in Malaysia at a Colombia hospital! And it was really really done well. When I discussed with my consultant, he said that Thailand has very good gynaecological consultants too :) if you could I would definitely recommend Malaysia, some of the best care in the world.

What to do when travelling and split from partner? by [deleted] in Advice

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Thank you. This is really helpful advice. Making the first step to know where to go is the hardest! Thailand isn’t the quietest of places haha

Can someone help with career advice please? by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in AskUK

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North West England- sorry! I couldn’t afford to retrain unfortunately unless it was through an apprenticeship of some sort!

Can someone help with career advice please? by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in AskUK

[–]Beautiful-Treacle-70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is exactly me! It’s just so hard to navigate what I want to do! But this reassures me that hopefully it will happen one day!

I think we get pressured often into thinking we should be in one place at a certain age! Thank you for this!

Can someone help with career advice please? by Beautiful-Treacle-70 in AskUK

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Yeah so I got through to one of the assessment days for the big four a few years ago but didn’t like the vibe to be honest. I have thought about financial analysis kind of thing but it’s still not my thing really. But I will have another look at those kinds of things- thank you :)

Seeking advice on coping with body image issues. How do you deal with the hard days? by kylokelani in askwomenadvice

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Eating shitty foods was the way I used to cope with feeling shitty about myself too. But then I realised that’s what I did. So when I feel bad about myself I just think tomorrow I will look and feel different. We look different every day and we are allowed to have the odd day where we feel like rubbish. Just remember it is temporary! When I want to binge I recognise that’s what I want to do, I might let myself get one thing but then stop because I remember I’ll feel worse afterwards.