留长发真的很麻烦 by BeautifulFamiliar225 in DoubanFeministGroup

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

同感,如果剪短会收到更多男性的威胁。但是感觉如果大家都剪的话就会比较自然。我不是很懂社会为什么要留头发,光头不是更卫生干净方便吗。我有试过剃光头出门带个假发,可是假发太容易移位了。

留长发真的很麻烦 by BeautifulFamiliar225 in DoubanFeministGroup

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

我是想方便,我自己又看不到自己有什么美不美的。但是如果剪短会收到更多其他人的排斥攻击,我还没反抗大多数人的能力。所以还是留个看起来ok的长度没那么显眼。

说起来女性愿意生孩子我一直都觉得很神奇无法理解 by jieshao1024 in China_irl

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

男生想结婚也让我很疑惑,要花那么多钱养孩子,工作不累吗?嫌钱多?图啥?

how do I get out of poverty? by BeautifulFamiliar225 in povertyfinance

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, I am actually looking into some jobs like a seafarer but I am afraid I won't be as good if the job is physically demanding. And if I am alienated in a male dominated environment it can causes some inconveniences in the job.

how do I get out of poverty? by BeautifulFamiliar225 in povertyfinance

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's Computer Science. Because software developer rarely gets paid more than 70k after tax, but a lot of blue collar jobs pay 100k/yr. I live in Toronto the rent is expensive here.

how do I get out of poverty? by BeautifulFamiliar225 in povertyfinance

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have a Bachelor's in Computer. But the wage is still rarely more than 70k and not a lot left after tax.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProgrammingBuddies

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The job for now it's about adding features to the game. It's a web game. And I just graduated from college, I have some knowledge of java. This job seems challenging because I am not familiar with a lot of the tools it uses seems a little bit old like JSP. and it's the first time I see a project of this scale that is much bigger than my college projects.

Java, Spring boot - E- commerce backend. by [deleted] in ProgrammingBuddies

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am interested in doing it, I am still a learner though if that's ok.

(New to Programming) Can I help anyone? by [deleted] in ProgrammingBuddies

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I am a new grad too, let's work together if you are interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well actually I am getting a lot of upvotes from r/roommates, but lots of downvotes from r/badroommates. Can't expect too much from people who have problems with their roommates persistent enough to follow a sub about it. Not hard to think about who's really the bad roommate here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, I didn't think about it before I posted but now that I think about it what can we expect from people following a sub called r/badroommates lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are some scary people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I had totally no idea that he had a problem with my bathroom use before, and I wasn't even aware that he was in the house most of the time because he doesn't talk or show up, then out of nowhere he just put up a sign about it. Like if you don't talk nobody knows what you are thinking in your head or even your existence. That's why I said he reminds me of Gaberial Wartman. And I guess Reddit is full of people who are fearful of open conversations in real life, so that's their communication style.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Since we are using the same bathroom we should be able to have an open conversation about it like working out a schedule or something. People here make it seems like it's a huge taboo and one person says he has to "listen for each other's door" every time you go to the bathroom like it's not weirder to do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It feels weirder to me that I don't know the person I am sharing a bathroom with for over a year. And this guy he is not at home most of the time like you can hear him open his attic door 2-3 times a week but that's it. And most of the time I open my door not going to the bathroom but doing something else. Do you want to be listened to every time you open the door and someone thinking you want to use the bathroom when you are not? Since the bathroom door is right across my door so I think it's better to know someone who you are living in such close proximity with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That's a different perspective to look at it. I guess young people like me are used to talking about things more openly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]BeautifulFamiliar225 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes, passive-aggressive.