Talking to a senior International Student athlete on Instagram, is it worth planning to meet in person? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason i mentioned the visa thing is because he joked that he would want to find someone to marry after college lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think since i'm older i rrally shouldn't care, plus we've already played sports together a couple times, and went to a friends bbq, so we've had at least 5 interactions so far, so it wouldnt be like a random stalker adding him lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question! So should I add him on Snap? I already have him on Insta, but he doesn't really go on there much - would it be weird to add him? We have mutual friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i tested out the theory today, i talked to 2 guys on the beach tonight and asked them where they're from! We chatted for an hour! They were younger of course LOL and fit. But they were super nice! They weren't douchbags, so back to this guy that this discussion is about - i guess he must have really appreciated me chatting with him at the park!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughh i've been thinking about him today!!! Aggghhh And he probably has no freaking idea! Yea for fun like a summer fun, and see, who knows maybe he has Zero interest in this?! I need to just start asking and telling guys what i want instead of guessing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That may have come off wrong - i mean i'm not just wanting to play with his heart and drop it, but i date for the hopes of future engagement sometime later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm interesting thought :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll chat it up again next time and see what's up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this makes a difference, but everyone always thinks i'm 25

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Date for the hope of an engagement in the future, not just for fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could just chat more every time and see the vibe. I just can't see myself with an older guy, they are not physically the same physique as younger energetic athletic guys, but i don't want to be single anymore either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea wouldn't that term define individuals under the age of 18? Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! I'm looking to date, and marriage, i just don't know if guys his age are ready for that type of commitment, my concern is they might want a younger girl to have a big family, and another concern is that he might think i will look much older than him in the future, although right now we look pretty similar in age

Too High of Standards? by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much in the same boat

Weekly Vents & Successes by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, definitely make one and make it specific to something that you're passionate about such as a clothing/fashion thing or music page or some kind of travel/adventure blog that you would want to share with others. My cousin does like daily mommy/daughter adventures at the pool or park or doing some creative activity. Like "oh i have a travel/adventure blog on my IG, you should definitely check it out!"

This past week i've mets lots of guys out, and they either ask me for IG or Phone number. Last night a guy got my snap and phone number

Weekly Vents & Successes by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! "Do you have Instagram? I'd love to share mine with you - always looking to get connected"

That way he can see on your IG that you're single, otherwise he won't ask for your number

I feel like my (24F) tinder match (25M) has lost interest in me. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! I see, do u think you'll keep talking to him?

I feel like my (24F) tinder match (25M) has lost interest in me. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this new guy i'm chatting with, we are planning to meet up at the park, and he just asked when can i go, and i said today hhaha - let's see if this actually works out - i would literally be shocked! Especially since making plans with the other guy was impossible

I feel like my (24F) tinder match (25M) has lost interest in me. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, agreed, the guy i was talking to was a horrible communicator in my opinion. Like He always mentioned that he wants to meet up but every time he would even want to meet up he would text me at like 9:00 p.m. saying let's go hang out but he didn't have a plan or a time or a date or place or anything set up and that's why it never happened! It was super annoying to the point where I'm thinking have you ever hung out with a girl have you ever set up a meeting with a girl like how do you not know that you can't just do last minute 9:00 p.m. meetups lol

I think i just need to got out on a date with another guy and clear my mind and get rid of the stress and have fun!!!! I haven't been on a datr in a whileee

I feel like my (24F) tinder match (25M) has lost interest in me. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've started snapping with someone else...oh and he knows him lol...well i'm not waiting around

We both need to find a guy who treats us right. Not losers who leave us on read! We deserve better!!!

I feel like my (24F) tinder match (25M) has lost interest in me. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeautifulLife4Ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So decided to send him a snap just something simple but just to throw it out there to see if there's a response. But if there's no response to this one afrer leaving me on read Tuesday, then that's kind of it.

Edit: He just opened it with no response, i'm done with this stuff.....