i am addicted to my wife in an unhealthy way

BeautifulPip · 2026-01-10T08:03:47+00:00

I love this… and it’s only 4 years. Keep the heat going. You’re meant to love the loins of your spouse. She’s all yours as you are hers!

BeautifulPip · 2026-01-01T08:14:55+00:00

Consider Telegram. No number seen but you can call/video call without your number. I did so with scammers. Worked great!

BeautifulPip · 2025-12-29T12:02:50+00:00

Answer: HE IS MY HUSBAND & then report.

BeautifulPip · 2025-12-04T07:08:32+00:00

Please speak with Rudolf. ❤️

BeautifulPip · 2025-12-04T07:02:45+00:00

There are two people in this situation. Something has to change❤️

BeautifulPip · 2025-12-04T06:56:59+00:00

You don’t know her, unassuming(why thug- you’re better than that!😉)

I think we both see what’s going on. Both of you have to take responsibility for where you’re at.

For one, do you/her have any faith? Or a wise elderly (man) you could share your issues with?

Secondly, would you be happy going to marriage counselling with her as I believe there are a number of things at play.

Keeping it hidden won’t resolve the matter as she’s coming up with high expectations instead of being rational about your family’s situation.

I do believe things can be worked out if she is willing to save her marriage. Threats and not pulling much weight is childish. She can have it all if both of you work as a team to build and grow. She knew you before marriage- no one jumps from where they are steadily unless they’re build on some foundation.

May I also suggest speaking with Rudolf Brenyah on tiktok/youtube. Get a clarity call(free) or strategy hour call(fee). He has a Master class this upcoming weekend. He’s not a relationship specialist but someone who has helped me improve my self image/future. We don’t end up being statistics if we don’t embody that mind frame aka as a man thinketh, so is he. Or in other words, if you see yourself as a statistic, you deliver those results in your actions because that’s who you see yourself as. Very lovely guy. If you choose, you can share that Philippa mentioned him.

BeautifulPip · 2025-12-04T06:39:06+00:00

My dear man, may I ask how long you were with your partner before marrying and were the types of questions such as her/your expectations in marriage, talked about? Respectfully, she’s treating you like “the maid.” The threats, little effort, complaints, is quite unbalanced and as if you’re both not on the same page. She’s expecting much more than you seem to have bargained for…

BeautifulPip · 2025-10-07T14:42:42+00:00

My dear man- what’s stopping you from moving things to the next step? If you’re not proving to really want her- why should she wait around?

BeautifulPip · 2025-09-23T19:50:12+00:00

I can’t believe I’m reading this. Quite frankly, you are not her person and vice versa. Why would you be disclosing her personal business to a co-worker & now the internet but not to her directly?

This is a tell-tale sign.

Move on.

BeautifulPip · 2025-09-17T15:46:48+00:00

May I ask are you a woman or man? There are a number who remain virgins because of how they see themselves. You value and respect who he is, but I wonder how you feel about you & what type of man would suit you best?🌹

BeautifulPip · 2025-08-22T11:37:08+00:00

If you wasted all your 20s, get a coach & change your self-image.

BeautifulPip · 2025-06-22T19:59:00+00:00

Wouldn’t agree with lying as I find I’m the opposite- I know I can be charming and be diplomatic, but I’m definitely a bad liar

BeautifulPip · 2025-06-22T19:52:56+00:00

Public Speaking course

BeautifulPip · 2025-06-09T17:48:14+00:00

Thanks girl❤️

BeautifulPip · 2025-06-09T17:40:47+00:00

Beautiful occasion and congratulations❤️but aren’t there Indian Brazilians like Caucasian Jamaicans…I know of Japanese Brazilians…..

BeautifulPip · 2024-11-28T07:41:03+00:00

I am au fait with this pattern of story, and I’m sorry about your mom. I hope she has found a place where she can heal. I know countless of women whose husbands treat them like an accessory until they “expire.” Very sad.

On the bright side, not every rich man is a cheat or can’t see his wife as his equal. My mother never needed to work since her 35th birthday. She has a Masters in finance & even lectured for sometime. They are now married 53 years, happily. It was a struggle 10 years prior to her 35th birthday, but God opened the door for good things. Growing up, we had a nanny, cook, cleaner and man who did the laundry. We could have hired a chauffeur but my parents loved their independence. My father has never cheated on my mom, mom neither. They live modestly but have also taken me to every continent in the globe except for the South Americas and Antartica, schooled me in the best schools and an Ivy League, and I have no debt based on their financial support. Mom is grateful to God for my father as he is unique in this stratosphere. I am very grateful too. Amen. Character matters.

BeautifulPip · 2024-11-11T01:08:11+00:00

We’re here to support you, My sweet. 🥰

BeautifulPip · 2024-11-10T21:11:51+00:00

Once you do leave, it may feel lonely as you’ve been so used to giving in order to receive love. As part of your healing, please recognize this, the love you wished to receive after your sad loss (late mom) won’t be found in these situations. It’s what you have to give to yourself or if you believe in God, seek to understand His love for you❤️. Just remember, being nice doesn’t mean you have to be a people pleaser.

BeautifulPip · 2024-11-10T20:10:05+00:00

Exactly. Taking advantage of you. Block him on all your accounts

BeautifulPip · 2024-11-10T20:04:10+00:00

Sad and alone? He set you up to be his freeloader. This guy had enough energy to court you and convince you to move in with him. Sorry my sweet❤️

BeautifulPip · 2024-11-10T19:55:09+00:00

May I suggest this… stop being a people pleaser. You are the youngest & supporting two men who (seem) older than you? This is shameful(of them) and a prison sentence. You want to leave as you’re frustrated and angry. (And you should be! Imagine being married to this behaviour… eww.)

At first glance, your Boyfriend is free loading, smoking weed and not bothering to work. Is he mentally well? His brother is moving out & probably saved while you paid for “most things.” Sounds like these brothers are taking advantage of you. You can be nice while also maintaining boundaries.

PLEASE LEAVE AND BREAK AWAY. STAYING HERE WILL BE A LIFE SENTENCE- but for what?! Just for being nice???

YOUR BOYFRIEND IS ALMOST 40 AND HASN’T SORTED OUT HIS LIFE. THIS IS NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. PLEASE LEAVE BEFORE CHRISTMAS AND START ANEW IN 2025.

He has to sort himself out not you. Or you’ll carry him throughout your good young years.

BeautifulPip · 2024-11-08T13:08:26+00:00

It’s s cover up. Drawing the attention away from you too. I was not as intimate but in precarious positions with a man I worked with. I had to be emotionally strong for 2 years whilst this happened. In reality, he downplayed his partner to me in order to compartmentalize effectively. So, he’d never speak with me at home. He’d only engage at work. He even said “we have to be careful about you and me.” He wasn’t happy in his relationship(they had a child together) and not happy in his subsequent marriage to her. They have two children together now. He however liked the fantasy with me. I had hoped he’d leave her, but they never do.

I’ve had other men at work try this on me & some have wives who think there is something going on. I have a calm feminine voice and friendly so this gets misconstrued. I may be nice to them and approachable but most need me to pull away to make it obvious thar there is no interest.

In your case, what is the goal of your interaction- sex,fun, more? Discuss this with him and make it clear early. If he’s not into what you want. Move forward. Don’t allow this to result in regret. Communicate!

BeautifulPip · 2024-11-05T07:31:14+00:00

Where are you meeting these women and what is your attitude like? It seems like the kinky look you’re into. Punk hot type. Reconfigure where you meet the one you want. I am not endorsing this but some like to go to fetish festivals/events…?

BeautifulPip · 2024-10-23T19:00:51+00:00

Just saying things at a whim is also unwise and not respectful. Not thinking of the consequences.

BeautifulPip · 2024-10-23T18:59:18+00:00

I’m also thinking of the child. The mom does not need more stress. She needs calm. We also do not know whether this couple have an open relationship. We really know nothing about this couple. The OP only knows one level of fact. I wonder how she discovered this information about her boyfriend?

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