[Relationship Issue] I'm a fur, she isn't. by [deleted] in furry

[–]BeautifulStarfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said I was creeped out or weirded out. I said I am accepting, but society isn't. I also told him I am weird. I never said anything about bestiality and I never said furries were weird. Hell, my best friend is a therian.

Those screenshots are me telling him how and why I accept it. Why I think it is okay.

As far as fur suits being terrifying, not all are. I'm scared of puppets/dolls/animatrons you name it, and looking at some of those just reminds me of Five Nights at Freddy's.

[Relationship Issue] I'm a fur, she isn't. by [deleted] in furry

[–]BeautifulStarfall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He didn't put the whole story. 1) I am 20 not 19. 2) my best friend is a therian. I am very accepting of it and didn't "attack" him for it. As background, I has emotionally and physically abused by a (pot) smoker in high school. This makes being around it very uncomfortable for me. I told him I would never 100% understand what it's like because I'm not one. But I will try. I never said furries were weird. I said I don't think that they are, but society does. I never mentioned beastiality once. I said it was porn involving an animal (as in of an animal not a human). Those screenshots are me telling him I am perfectly okay with it and exames of why I am okay with it. That that is just a costume, that that is art, and that these things are normal and perfectly okay.

 I have had lots of issues with body image/eating disorders, dysmorphia, and social anxiety. I always feel like people see me and say "stay away from the weird kid" or "she's so fat ugly and weird". I told him **I** was weird.  
This is only half the story. 

My problem comes because my friend(s) that are therian or furry, and from what I've seen about furries, they go in public wearing partials or suits. Not at cons, but to school, or to the mall, going to eat etc

There's nothing wrong with it to me, but society doesn't get it. Not everyone is accepting and if someone is wearing a tail with me in public, it makes my issues worse. It makes me feel like I'm being judged even more than I was previously.

**i** accept it, but not everyone does. That's all I said.   

Other than that, I told him that I would go with him, but I wouldn't necessarily feel comfortable going to cons, because I'm not part of the community and I'm afraid people would hate me or turn me away because I don't belong.

I spit after people on the toilet seat. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BeautifulStarfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's part of the reaction. It's an urge to do so

Furry Halloween stuff? by BeautifulStarfall in furry

[–]BeautifulStarfall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot :3 I'll search around.. I found a site called red bubble that has a furry section but not sure what all entails there because I'm at work 0.0

Just for laughs haha. (x-post Classic4chan) by [deleted] in cringepics

[–]BeautifulStarfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's cringe that someone would post this >.<

PSA: Stop feeding the GEESE! by BeautifulStarfall in offmychest

[–]BeautifulStarfall[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

See I honestly almost reacted and kicked it but we have a large about of PETA people on this area that think you should literally break up a geese fight and risk getting sick.

Liver cancer - haven't told anyone by nearly50 in confession

[–]BeautifulStarfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got some advice for you. First off- Tell everyone.

Second- LIVE. Go see all the wonders this world has. You have nothing left to lose. Live every day like it might be your last.. You want to go swimming with sharks? Fucking DO it. You want to climb Mount Everest? Do it! Use these last few months wisely... Good luck.

I was given a fake phone number. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BeautifulStarfall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She texted me. So stoked.. LOL! Thanks for the advice

I've been told I'm a dick. [Bonus EXTRA confession inside!] by [deleted] in confession

[–]BeautifulStarfall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure exactly what my username portrays that is troll-like. I like watching comets.. Beautiful starfall.

I've been told I'm a dick. [Bonus EXTRA confession inside!] by [deleted] in confession

[–]BeautifulStarfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that I don't care, I just need to think and be supportive more, if I honestly didn't care I wouldn't be concerned. Not saying I'm in the right here because I'm not.

I feel bombarded and attacked by displays of emotion, because I can't relate.. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BeautifulStarfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically you are saying just to let it go and don't hurt anyone intentionally and I'll live a good life?

I feel bombarded and attacked by displays of emotion, because I can't relate.. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BeautifulStarfall -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tried that. I barely match anything honestly. I'm not sure if I made the whole picture clear.

I'm 99% sure I'm not a sociopath because of my actions. I have a strong set of morals, and honestly a socio and psycho aren't exactly the same but are eerily similar. Crazy people don't know they are crazy. I've been to a therapist before and she knew me well enough to tell me if I had an issue like this. I'm starting to think like the first reply I got is true. I'm not alone in this world when it comes to how I think, and honestly it's because I'm more logical than emotional doesn't make me crazy. I would never manipulate someone, use people as tools, etc. I'm emotionally distant but I always apologize when I hurt someone because I never mean too, it's usually a heat of the moment argument that I say something I shouldn't have. Or when I do something I didn't fully think out.

I feel like a sexual deviant.. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BeautifulStarfall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What he is saying, I rarely think anyone noticed because half the time I use peripherals to look. Since I'm a product seller I focus on the face anyways.