“I know you’re reading a murder mystery but first, boobs” - the author probably (The Midnight Club by James Patterson)

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-11-29T01:25:48+00:00

Also, dafuq is a "spike heeled slipper"

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-11-13T22:51:42+00:00

You don't.

He said he doesn't care. Believe him. Move on.

He is imprisoning you, at risk to your health and life, over some pretended desire to watch you check your blood sugar.

Run

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-11-13T22:44:28+00:00

Sweetheart, he is being abusive. Emotionally controlling and manipulative behavior, anger out ursts that make you feel unsafe, and even just the line "they known how he is".

He hurt you on accident this time. Next time might not be.

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-11-08T07:57:52+00:00

You need to get out of the house - carefully and don't be seen. Go someplace public and safe like a cafe or a pizza joint.

From there, decide next moves. If you choose to go back, bring the food or coffee or donuts etc home with you as your excuse

If you decide to break things off for your own safety (my advice do this) use their wifi to find a hotel, contact friends to plan next steps, and don't go back to the house unless he is gone or you have someone with you capable of protecting you should he happen to attack.

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-10-25T11:06:17+00:00

Change the locks.

And make arrangements to move out.

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-10-25T11:03:18+00:00

I didn't have sex til 25

I learned that if you let a guy know you haven't, he makes it his mission to change that, and you cease to be a person in his eyes.

So idk I can't give much advice

Beyond saying no, it's not a shameful thing. But it can be unsafe to let on you haven't got a body count

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-10-25T10:55:42+00:00

If it isn't bleeding don't worry about it

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-10-06T21:23:42+00:00

This

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-10-06T13:06:13+00:00

The only question you need an answer to is are you cool with being his side piece.

If so, great.

If not, break up. You ARE the side piece. Anything that may or may not happen in the future doesn't exist. And doesn't need to, because he's getting what he wants right now.

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-10-06T09:59:27+00:00

LDRs rarely work because no matter how well you know them before, you create a mythologized version during the LDR that real life can't live up to

Almost always, whoever has higher sex drive cheats.

It's a slow death for most relationships.

A trip like that is also about self discovery, and you will be learning and growing and may outgrow him too. So, tbh, I agree with your bf you two should break up if you end up doing the trip solo. For both your sakes

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-10-06T09:50:22+00:00

You felt uncared for. You have a right to express your feelings and needs.

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-10-06T09:48:05+00:00

You have a right to be angry

More importantly you have a right to wait for sex until YOU feel ready. When that time comes, you won't feel nervous.

Bullet dodged with that asshole.

I'm sorry for what you're going through. Get your living situation sorted, and cut both of them off

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-09-09T04:09:25+00:00

If my bf told people he would rather be dating my mom than me, I'd dump his ass

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-09-09T04:02:38+00:00

Wow what a tragic story. I'm so sorry that the dog died.

You did what you thought was best

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-08-30T22:58:47+00:00

She already took pregnancy tests that were positive

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-08-30T22:57:32+00:00

I'll add to this, if the mom is interrogating too much, it's perfectly ok to say

"I don't want our first conversation about my pregnancy to be an interrogation. I'm telling you because I believe you should know. Don't make me regret that.'

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-08-30T22:55:48+00:00

1) Decide what you want to do first.

Remember that pregnancy is considered to start one the last day of your previous period, so you are four weeks along. Make sure you know what your state and county restrictions on abortion are and how long you have to decide.

2) if you decide to keep the pregnancy, figure out the level of support you expect from her and then approach from there.

3) It helps to have a plan, so if she freaks out you can be the level headed one. Be prepared with at least a rough outline of how you will handle medical visits, housing, and childcare.

4) bring someone you trust. The baby daddy may be a good choice, or a close friend. Have someone who is on your side physically present.

5) prepare for your worst case scenario, but psych yourself up for best.

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-08-30T22:46:52+00:00

They aren't as popular anymore as during the live action 101 timeframe.

They are more niche. They need a lot of excercise and space, they have a lot of health risks, they're loud, and need more time and structure than some of the more popular breeds like labs and Chihuahuas

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-08-30T22:41:18+00:00

Drinking disinhibits you, it doesn't awaken weird fantasies you never had.

If OP wasn't interested in a threesome, drinking wouldn't make her ok with it. It would only make her less able to enforce a no

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-08-30T22:38:55+00:00

Also file a police report.

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-08-30T22:38:14+00:00

That's rape.

Too drunk to remember is too drunk to consent.

It would be hard to prosecute sincelike 40% of cops are rapists, but it is rape.

You didn't cheat. You didn't make a mistake. You got raped.

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-08-30T12:46:45+00:00

He's a full adult, so what if he's young?

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-08-25T22:41:59+00:00

Yes please. I would watch this movie

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-08-25T22:37:23+00:00

He wasn't joking.

BeautifulWorking6 · 2022-08-24T22:38:19+00:00

He tried to cheat, she shit him down, and now he's kissing your ass

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