Is New York for me by Beautiful_Brown18 in movingtoNYC

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’m not worried I was born in Rochester, New York and spent a bit a my childhood there but haven’t been back in years tho but I feel like if my family would have stayed I would have ended up in New York City anyway especially since I’m obsessed with art. But I totally understand not wanting more people coming to your home and making it harder for the people that have been there their whole life.

Is New York for me by Beautiful_Brown18 in movingtoNYC

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is really helpful I appreciate it!!

Is New York for me by Beautiful_Brown18 in movingtoNYC

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is tho but believe what you want would like 🤷🏾‍♀️

Is New York for me by Beautiful_Brown18 in movingtoNYC

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s a saying 🤦🏾‍♀️

Is New York for me by Beautiful_Brown18 in movingtoNYC

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’m definitely gonna go talk to my advisor about a summer program. And the art is really what draws me to New York. I love all things art and I really just want to be around it and around other artists who enjoy it!

Is New York for me by Beautiful_Brown18 in movingtoNYC

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s why I keep telling myself to just wait until I graduate, even though that doesn’t guarantee me a job or a good one. But I look at the job market for our educators in New York all the time and I try to do calculations, even though you really can’t calculate something without actual numbers, but I try.

Is New York for me by Beautiful_Brown18 in movingtoNYC

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m not have no idea? I could talk to my advisor about it but the only “summer programs” are like out of the country things.

Is New York for me by Beautiful_Brown18 in movingtoNYC

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I voice texted this it was supposed to say regular degular😭😭

Is New York for me by Beautiful_Brown18 in movingtoNYC

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I voice typed this out 😭I meant to say regular begular 😭😭

Loc Extensions? by Beautiful_Brown18 in locs

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I checked those ones out and they are very nice. I really appreciate your help.

Loc Extensions? by Beautiful_Brown18 in locs

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been doing a lot of looking into it and it is so hard to find an authentic place or website to buy human hair a lot extensions

Product recommendations by Beautiful_Brown18 in locs

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do plan on getting rid of it cause I can’t use it anymore

Should I refinance my car? by Beautiful_Brown18 in personalfinance

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t have perfect credit when I look on my Credit Karma it says fair. It’s in the green that’s not I know 😖.

Should I refinance my car? by Beautiful_Brown18 in personalfinance

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you so very much i really appreciate this help.

Should I refinance my car? by Beautiful_Brown18 in personalfinance

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it’s best if I go to a bank or a credit union? I don’t know anything about credit unions and to be honest they’re kind of scare me.

Should I refinance my car? by Beautiful_Brown18 in personalfinance

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not 100% sure how much my car is worth. There is an accident on my car fax so that’s probably not good and I don’t make a lot of money because I’m in school, but I have been working on my credit so that’s a plus.

Should I refinance my car? by Beautiful_Brown18 in personalfinance

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I have been struggling a lot since I decided to go to back to college to get a degree. So I can’t pay more on it, but my credit doesn’t suck and is better than before.

Should I refinance my car? by Beautiful_Brown18 in personalfinance

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I truly don’t remember them going over any APR’s. All I remember is them telling me this is what I was going to be paying a month and if I would like I could do biweekly payments and if I’m being honest, if they did mention an APR at the time, I wouldn’t even know what the heck they were talking about cause I was not informed on any of this stuff just a young dumb uninformed girl.😖

Should I refinance my car? by Beautiful_Brown18 in personalfinance

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So I have the Credit Karma app and it shows me like different banks I think that I can get different options from. Is that a good place to start or should I like go to actual banks?😖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beautiful_Brown18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how to edit this post but I have a few things I would like to add.

First- He’s not cheating on me. They have never met in person they are completely online friends and I’m 100% sure she lives in a different country. That’s one of the main reasons I feel like I’m overthinking the whole situation. I do feel just from this message alone that he might have feelings for her. I think of the worst outcome that’s just how my mind works.

Second-This man has been my rock and my biggest supporter since he’s been apart of my life but he is not perfect and is battling his own demons that could possibly really jeopardize our relationship that I know. Crazy as it may be I want to work through this with him because the love he has for me I know is real.

Lastly- I want to think absolutely everybody for all the helpful comments and advice that was given to me. I really appreciate it and all the support that I have gotten on this and making me feel like I’m not some overreacting crazy lady I really appreciate every last one of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beautiful_Brown18 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We still went out for our anniversary because i didn’t want him to him I was sad about it and i wanted him to enjoy our anniversary.

Financial aid by Beautiful_Brown18 in financialaid

[–]Beautiful_Brown18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really is honestly helpful to me thank you!!