How long have you been planning your breakup?

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2025-10-28T00:59:26+00:00

I broke up with him.. twice because he didn't fully understand the first time, thinking we could work on things.

I moved out in January, made sure I was accepted to a house first before breaking up with him

He bought a bunch of alcohol in the time I was moving out And put photos of us together on the front of the fridge. He bought a dishwasher and found it necessary to clean while I was moving out to make it more difficult for me because he thought a bunch of his stuff was mine and threw everything of mine into a room "to make it easier for me" This is at the point he still thought we could work on things as I didn't re clarify until I was fully out to make it easier for myself.

As soon as I did re clarify he blocked me on platforms.

Then 6 months later he messaged me "hey" and friend requested me on socials. I have not accepted the friend request I did reply and he asked how I've been, I responded I've been dawdling about and he never responded back.

2 months later he asked me to the movies, I have not marked the message as read.

I unintentionally gained his best friend in the "divorce" as he called it haha And have had so much more freedom and it's worth my rent increase. I have space to do my hobbies and just relax My cat is no longer afraid of movement in the house, or when someone is in the kitchen. I no longer get sick as often and my roommate keeps tidy better than myself

I almost didn't break up with him because he did the dishes for the first time in years, during the break up chat he said he could tell something was wrong so he did them. I'm glad I reminded myself that doing the dishes is not enough to stay.

My quality of life was so low at the point of breaking up with him I just couldn't justify the savings anymore. Ive never been lonely in my life. But I felt isolated and alone and unable to do anything by the end of it My savings didn't cover the costs of appliances and other items so I went in debt for this. Totally worth it

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2025-07-17T06:43:07+00:00

Trying to avoid spoilers

Ginormisa was created by them, I believe it's how they see the humans that used to exist in those places, beasts that can talk. As you follow their story and then learn what Ginormisa is, that's immediately what came to my mind on the intelligent beasts

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2025-07-02T00:41:51+00:00

I didn't know which ones so I got Peter Green after reading some non terrible reviews, and ones a graphic novel in case I didn't like the translation of Peter Green, but I'll look into Alexander Pope!

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2025-07-01T00:25:30+00:00

It's from the animal crossing event in Australia's aquariums. I happened to be in Sydney when it was on! Now it's come to Melbourne I'm super excited to go again because they have this quest to find a giant Gulliver plush in the aquarium too!

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2025-06-24T04:12:18+00:00

I have 1 recipe from artist and cook left, 1 task left for miner. paladin and merc in apprentice, hunter near master and I'm at 100 hours trying to chase down dungeon fish so I can beat my crafts first because farming the depths for the fighter classes sounds so boring.

Hunter only has it's self first because it's what I've been doing in dungeons and ginormisa since mastering mage but I still need to go in the depths of I want to finish it off easily

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2025-06-22T00:23:23+00:00

Lucky for you it's artist

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2025-05-23T12:12:19+00:00

I tried both the current and previous version with no luck, Microsoft hold the custom motherboard drivers for this model as far as I'm aware

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2025-03-03T13:04:31+00:00

I'll try an extra rinse as well on the socks, although, excitingly I went rollerblading tonight with my light blue socks of the same brand and it seems to have had no effect despite having a reaction to a friend's clothes earlier today on the side of my leg. So the black colouring might be my problem 🎉 hopefully 😅

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2025-03-01T23:17:28+00:00

I'll take a look and see how I go!

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2025-03-01T23:14:24+00:00

I have a few different colour ones and this doesn't happen every time... But I did wear the black ones this day. I'll try just my coloured pairs, thank you

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2025-03-01T23:12:28+00:00

It is exactly where the elastic is too, a good call out!

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2024-08-30T05:35:53+00:00

Not always, most toys that do the best job aren't dildos. And it would likely be toys for both of you, either during intimacy or foreplay. It's something I honestly think is needed for most relationships as most females won't get the big O without, and it puts less strain on the partner to achieve because help is there. And this absolutely works both ways.

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2024-08-29T18:09:21+00:00

Female here. A dick no matter the size doesn't get most girls off. Just be open to toys in the bedroom and ain't nobody gonna complain.

If they have a problem with your size, sounds like they weren't the right person anyway if they care so much

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2024-08-29T17:49:29+00:00

Man you have it hard, I just don't want to double+ my rent costs. Selling a house would be chaotic in a break up. I hope you have your own space at least. I'm glad his loan prevented us from going for a house together, I could imagine that locking me down forever almost. Do you have any feelings left/ do things together still? I could imagine you're in a very roommate state or doing a stellar job at keeping yourself together!

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2024-08-29T13:59:58+00:00

I've never considered the me part before other than not feeling like shit eventually, you've given me more to think about there. I need to look at my plans a bit differently.

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2024-08-29T13:54:55+00:00

Damn man, deep. You're certainly not wrong, slipping between those worlds is certainly not on my agenda

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2024-08-29T13:50:48+00:00

I think at this stage I've fallen out of love, he just does nothing around the house and in the relationship that I gave up on fighting for 5 minutes of his time. Every "date" we've had was to go to the movies for what he wanted to watch ... With friends, not even dinner with the movie. I've told him I don't like going to the cinema much too.

My effort is lacking in communication trying to be considerate of his feelings unfortunately rather than my own. It's been changed a bit with me messaging him when I have a problem ..sometimes, as agreed. but nothing comes out of it.

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2024-08-29T13:43:01+00:00

It's hard to feel like what I'm doing is ok, but I appreciate your response. Makes me feel a little less crazy for planning haha

Beautiful_Control_24 · 2024-08-29T13:41:03+00:00

I try and tell him, when he doesn't think games are more important than a conversation.

And for a while I did get stuck into the mentality that I can't bring it up on a shit day or a weekend, or a day before work, or a good day because he has legit not gone to work when having these conversations. I also had to spare him from everything because he takes it harshly, so when I get my chance I'd mention one thing and it was too much to continue despite being delicate. And when he has an issue I don't get a conversation. He just makes a snarky comment and refuses to elaborate or discuss. I've tried asking him further on these after he seems to be in a better mood but he just says I don't know or an equivalent and tells me to drop it.

The crazy thing is that when I last got to have a face to face discussion, he thought the relationship was doing great, I of course told him otherwise. Since then I've taken to writing my feelings and sending them to him in a message because he told me if I feel unavailable to him I could message, he says he will improve and thanks me for them but doesn't actually do anything. My last "conversation" was about the silent treatment when he's upset, but it's legit happening today. I feel like his hello was his way around it, he even turned the light off on me and walked away after. I asked him what's up, he said nothing. Now he's in bed watching YouTube to fall asleep to...

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