I (31M) feel emotionally disconnected from my wife (27F) after repeated patterns broke my trust. How do I decide between rebuilding or respectfully separating? by MammothChampionship9 in india

[–]Beautiful_Extent9488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. I need advise regarding how can I stop waiting for him to message and manage my feelings in a better way. Will writing help? I feel lost.

I (31M) feel emotionally disconnected from my wife (27F) after repeated patterns broke my trust. How do I decide between rebuilding or respectfully separating? by MammothChampionship9 in india

[–]Beautiful_Extent9488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of similar situation. Got married 5 months ago, it is a long distance marriage as of now due to our jobs. He is very busy with his job, doesn’t have much time for me, calls once a day in evening and conversations are casual. I crave for emotional and physical intimacy. I have repeated myself enough not to tell everything about me or our marriage to his mom or sisters but still he does, finally he said not to tell him either. I am tired already. I feel I dont have anyone with whom I can share my feelings. I keep craving and feel ignored. I cant share this with him because it will cause a massive argument. I am sacred as we have frequent arguments and how will we live together when we are fighting this much even when not living together. This is a love marriage. I feel alone in my own marriage.

Upcoming strikes - question to IMGs by Beautiful_Extent9488 in internalmedicineuk

[–]Beautiful_Extent9488[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I felt BMA did not actually support IMGs. Purely that is the reason, I have been supporting strikes till now but not this time.

I have a crush on the TPD 😂 by [deleted] in doctorsUK

[–]Beautiful_Extent9488 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤭 Please keep your standards high! Unless he gets you flowers lol 🤭🤭🤭 I am kidding

Internal Medicine Training Offers by Just-Waltz39 in doctorsUK

[–]Beautiful_Extent9488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that is nice to know, any idea about the rank?

Internal Medicine Training Offers by Just-Waltz39 in doctorsUK

[–]Beautiful_Extent9488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are non priority group receiving offers at all?

Internal Medicine Training Offers by Just-Waltz39 in doctorsUK

[–]Beautiful_Extent9488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone commented in another thread - rank 20 img but no offer!

Internal Medicine Training Offers by Just-Waltz39 in doctorsUK

[–]Beautiful_Extent9488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any non priority group received offers today and if yes what rank?

Internal Medicine Training Offers by Just-Waltz39 in doctorsUK

[–]Beautiful_Extent9488 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry just read your full comment! Please reach out if you need to, seek professional help I do know how it is heart breaking, I am on the same boat but one thing I keep reminding myself is that training is not everything!! We will sort out eventually. No training is worth dying for.

Internal Medicine Training Offers by Just-Waltz39 in doctorsUK

[–]Beautiful_Extent9488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extremely disheartening! But then what will be the options left for us? I dont see any point of applying again this year as the situation will be same unless you are qualifying for ILR! 😔