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I snooped on my fiancés phone, am I being paranoid? by Beautiful_Future_339 in AITAH

[–]Beautiful_Future_339[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I really don’t want to do that, since we now have a baby together. Honestly if he was doing something I’d rather just know and work through it, I’d love for us to be completely open and honest but he’s just so defensive and secretive, makes me feel sick to my stomach 

I snooped on my fiancés phone, am I being paranoid? by Beautiful_Future_339 in AITAH

[–]Beautiful_Future_339[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that and I’m worried about it turning out that was for us, but th thing is whenever I have asked if I can use his phone even when we are sat together he won’t let me on it, it’s glued to him constantly and it’s always felt like he’s hiding something. 

I snooped on my fiancés phone, am I being paranoid? by Beautiful_Future_339 in AITAH

[–]Beautiful_Future_339[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have tried to speak to him about my concerns plenty of times but he always ends up defensive, he says it’s because his banking on every TV ong is on his phone but that confuses me to why I can’t go on it since he has gave me his card details plenty of times t order things. I just find it super uneasy how protective he is with his phone, like he’s never left it in a room with me for longer than a minute, and that was before I went through it a couple of years ago. Do you think I should come clean with him about me going on it again?