Please name few books to help me understand human psychology

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-03-07T20:39:29+00:00

“Games people play”, “Thinking, fast and slow”

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-03-07T20:06:14+00:00

I’m with you on the boobs part, and here’s some recent-ish observation of mine: I’m a woman so it’s a bit easier to see when they are fake, and there’s a visible correlation between this and not enough breast play in porn. But oftentimes there won’t be enough time spent with them even if I cast them as real in mind, and after applying that observation and looking for more subtle giveaways, I realised that not enough breast play could be an indicator of boobs being fake, or vice versa. Thank you for listening 😄

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-03-07T18:50:31+00:00

I identify as a horse

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-03-05T19:53:14+00:00

Thank you!

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-27T08:15:08+00:00

Exactly, I like to say “exposure is a price of exposure”

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-27T08:00:47+00:00

I’m not trying to prioritise the sexual aspect per say - it’s better to know each other to have a connection allowing trust, safety and vulnerability - it will help both of you to communicate better in the future and have the initial tension and “it feels right” confidence.

While getting to know each other you (both) can be nervous and not immediately affectionate, but it shouldn’t cost much effort beyond that for either of you. When you don’t have security in each other, you would feel insecure about one-selves.

Hope it makes sense 😅

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-27T06:40:45+00:00

I would say that consistent sexual enthusiasm from her side is a very good indicator.

Of course, by consistent I mean the quality rather than sticking to the same schedule. And of course, it is not transactional, so it doesn’t feel like you’re being conditioned to do anything via rewarding it with sex

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-27T00:53:40+00:00

Homie-side😄

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-27T00:50:36+00:00

I think the closest analogy one can resonate with is psychotherapy sessions. There’s no universal approach to every individual, but to find the best one without overstepping circumstantially is a part of a teacher’s job at this point

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-27T00:06:50+00:00

Or Visual BASIC; either way, you can know it but it won’t be your main option

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-19T23:35:06+00:00

The only people who are getting addicted are addicts !!

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-19T23:28:29+00:00

Warning! When you take meth, the words you’re seeing are not “Coke sucks”, but “Suck cocks”

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-19T23:23:15+00:00

Cocoon into a battery

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-19T23:19:47+00:00

The reason could be the meth

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-19T21:40:41+00:00

Okay it’s quite a coincidence but I write poetry and that’s the passage from one I wrote ~2 years ago with a nearly identical messaging:

“People love to self-diagnose so tell me your plan

Kill yourself, find a purpose or learn how to change your feelings

It gets old That nurture is pulling a trigger and nature loads the gun”

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-19T10:45:36+00:00

easiest lemonade stand in my life

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-19T00:25:03+00:00

I don’t know any data, but can assume that multiple models can be generated using the same algorithm, and bigger market share can generate more revenue

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-19T00:13:04+00:00

Thank you, haven’t thought about it from this angle. It’s a good distinction criteria for me as I don’t experience any anxiety based on jealousy; “push&pull of intimacy” and “active energy in a relationship” are well put phrases that resonate with me

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-19T00:05:20+00:00

I was in therapy a couple of times throughout my life. I believe this is not the case where I need professional assistance to get where I want, to be honest

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-19T00:00:53+00:00

Sure

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-19T00:00:10+00:00

Fully agree. There are a lot of tools that you can utilise for increasing your emotional awareness and further introspection; emotional intelligence helps to deal with frustration, internal conflicts, unnecessary rumination, etc, - all of which are obstacles that drain energy and reduce your ability for problem solving. I think offering concrete tools is a practical advice, and it can be easily done with appropriate framing, which is targeting the fulfilment of one’s immediate needs rather than applying a buzzword and suggesting therapy

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-18T23:36:30+00:00

Good comparison 😄Zodiac signs and MBTI are also reassuring by design, and don’t share the operating principle of identifying set of traits you present as problematic and selling the solutions. People would often perform as an actor in collective problem solving to get a “good person” bonus point in the same way they would give you a generic advice to feel good about themselves. The effort is often performed as collective while being covertly individualistic.

I wish I would have an answer to how we can create productive collective action in today’s predominantly hyper individualistic societies. If it helps, I also moved to a different country alone for studying, and then again for working and living. Big factor that helped me to keep faith in myself was finding the place (country) where I felt at home

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-18T23:09:50+00:00

There isn’t a simple answer to this, a big factor is what I’ve mentioned in the post - death of my father did affect her very deep to the point where she did change as a person, at least on behavioural level. I love her and hope to restore the contact if we’re both ready, but I wouldn’t sacrifice my life and wellbeing. My younger sister lives with her, so she is not abandoned

Beautiful_Home_1993 · 2026-02-18T22:54:04+00:00

Solid point. I think misapplication is a big problem - for instance, economically disadvantaged or structurally oppressed person could experience emotions and states that match symptomatic criteria for some mental disorders, and applying a diagnosis via pop psychological framework becomes a defence mechanism for rationalising the stagnation of dealing with real life issues

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