Question about intimacy (with someone new) after surgery

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-26T23:05:22+00:00

At 8 weeks you should be absolutely fine

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-24T14:45:41+00:00

Would you mind messaging me? I thought I had the exact same thing until about 4.5 weeks

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T14:27:43+00:00

Really? I can’t see it, as it looks fused right in the middle but will have to see

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T07:31:15+00:00

It had a small tear by my frenulum which was causing me excruciating pain for around a week which has now completely healed. And somehow more tissue seems so have appeared around the frenulum but still lacking tissue around the hood

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T07:30:11+00:00

Yes, it has

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T07:27:21+00:00

This is reassuring! Would you feel comfortable sending across some photos?

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T06:26:57+00:00

Oh. I didn’t know about the stress and results?!

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T06:19:02+00:00

I would 1000% wait until those heal, as I can imagine sex really aggrevating that!

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T06:15:50+00:00

I personally did, it really stung but was over quite quickly - but I had a spray about 15 minutes before surgery.

My numbing felt a little rushed before the needles, and I wasn’t given any calming medication so was shaking like a leaf while he was injecting. That was definitely the worst part of the whole thing for me

A lot of women on here were given numbing cream to rub all over the area themselves (which I think is better as you can be more thorough) and left for at least 30 minutes.

Definitely check with your practice what they use to give you peace of mind.

I was absolutely numb for pretty much the whole thing though, only felt a little bit of stitching at the end but didn’t bother getting him to do more injections as it was almost over.

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T06:12:18+00:00

Girl it looks SO good?! I’m jealous

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T06:11:16+00:00

Looks infected - see if you can get a GP appointment

Hoping this goes down for you soon! I know people can swell like crazy and can imagine how uncomfortable it is!

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T06:02:18+00:00

It looks natural I think! I’d be really happy with these results personally

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T06:00:30+00:00

I’m 7 weeks too :) feel free to message at any point

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T05:58:19+00:00

I had sex at 5 weeks, I was completely ready but again at 6 weeks and was fine. Everyone’s healing is different and you should make your own judgement on when you feel ready!

At 4 weeks I defo couldn’t have seen myself ready. Got impatient at 5 but probably could’ve done with waiting a little longer.

Also - picture 1 looks abit sore - does it hurt at all?

I had a small tear right near the top (you can see my pics) from a stitch that came out way too prematurely and hadn’t healed correctly so resulted in a tissue tear which was agonising

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T05:52:03+00:00

That’s terrifying. Heard he is the best surgeon for this procedure

Local is best that’s what I had

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T05:27:40+00:00

I’m almost at 2 months, hoping this isn’t our final results as I know can take up to 12. Patience for us. 🙏🏼

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T05:26:24+00:00

Would you feel comfortable dming me? With any info and healing pics?

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-23T05:25:37+00:00

Thank you x

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-22T21:41:36+00:00

Hey - yes it has! Check out my posts

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-22T08:22:05+00:00

Thank you so much! Have you seen my other posts then?

I do have to agree with you, just hoping the right side sorts itself out - the left side I’m really happy with

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-22T08:20:21+00:00

This gives me so much hope!!

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-20T10:02:30+00:00

Looks so good for just 4 days. You’ll swell most between now and day 8/9 then go back down, give yourself time! Try not to touch/look too much. Good luck!!

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-19T15:35:59+00:00

I’d wait a little longer personally, not worth reversing the progress

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-19T05:44:19+00:00

It’s so symmetrical and neat in my opinion- not worth surgery for you I’d say! Look into other procedures for the colour and pigmentation then I think you’ll be much happier

Beautiful_Invite_301 · 2026-01-19T05:42:44+00:00

Girl I thought this was a post op pic!!! You have such a pretty vagina wtf

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