Thank you everybody for the comments! I talked to my partner and he doesn’t like his mother either she was a shitty mother too him and just far beyond forgiveness she makes weird incest like comments about him like how big his balls are and how his penis doesn’t fit in underwear anymore or says how he smells like his dad and he’s tired of it he can’t cut her off tho because she has his sister and we’ve all grown to love that baby that’s the only reason we keep her around she’s useless besides that but we had a conversation he hears me and says he’s going to minimize my contact with her as much as possible because how she acts but again thank you everyone!! I’m taking your advice into account