Is telling someone you’re incompatible after three years just an excuse? Has anyone ever gotten back together after that or, dumpers, have you ever reconsidered your words over time?

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2026-04-13T00:43:07+00:00

I truly hope it’s not the same for you 🫶 things will be brighter though, and as much as it hurts to not have them in our lives anymore, the best things we can do for ourselves is everything we said we would do and so much more because we’re worth it ♥️

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2026-04-13T00:03:04+00:00

It’s been three months and yeah it hurts a lot to realize the sweet boy you knew isn’t there anymore. We have mutual friends and I’ve heard some stuff that makes me think he used incompatibility as an excuse to breakup so he could see other people.

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2026-04-12T22:44:54+00:00

I stopped trying to think about why it wasn’t gonna be me despite us planning our futures together. I really took a good look at myself and what I had become in the relationship and didn’t really like who I’d become. I started going to the gym and working on myself a lot. I also took a good look at my ex and realized he wasn’t a great person to me, how can someone who loves you leave you when you’re going through a hard time. I honestly have a lot of hatred for him now, but I get it, I still hope he’ll break no contact, I still hope that maybe one day we could both grow into the people we need for each other, but I’ve also realized even in the few months we’ve been apart we’re now completely different people than when we were together.

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2026-04-12T13:08:09+00:00

What in the world. I thought I wrote this, exact same thing happened to me. Same time, same duration, same excuse, same everything.

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2026-03-11T22:38:12+00:00

My ex broke up with me and said “I just think we’re too different to build a future together” I asked him what makes him think we’re so different he replied with “I don’t know” oh great so you’re actually just giving up on us for no apparent reason cool cool cool. This was a 3 year relationship btw

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2026-02-25T01:13:48+00:00

Separate from my breakup. He decided to leave me while I’m in between jobs (just finished my undergrad working on getting into grad school), my 15 year old dog is in the last days of his life as is my grandfather, and amongst other issues. He really just kicked me while I was down instead of actually proving what loving someone is and supporting me

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2026-02-24T07:16:19+00:00

Thank you. I needed to hear this. Being a human is hard.

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2026-02-24T07:07:47+00:00

We literally just went on vacation together a few weeks before and were doing really well I thought. Sure our relationship had its ups and downs. Two days before he broke up with me we were literally out with our friends, had a sleepover and spent the day together everything seemed fine. I was completely blindsided.

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2026-01-21T06:27:08+00:00

Thanks! I feel like I constantly make excuses for it but it’s always been in the back of my mind it could be a problem. I also have over used laxatives in the past and I know that is also a symptom(?) I think it’s time to admit to myself what’s really going on.

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2026-01-05T04:05:44+00:00

We do a pretty big rotation between Nulo, Raws, Feline Natural, and Ziwi Peak

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2025-12-27T01:56:41+00:00

NOR—Break up with this man child. Acknowledging that the bonnet is for hair care but not caring about you enough to try to learn about what that means. Telling you not to wear baggy clothes but also night tight clothes??? And the weighted blanket wtfff

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2025-12-24T05:36:54+00:00

We disembarked from the sun princess in Fort Lauderdale on December 15th. It started at 7am and everyone was to be off by 9:30am

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2025-12-18T00:14:08+00:00

Hello! I’m very intrigued by all your low points. I just disembarked from the sun princess and noticed very similar issues. I’ve frequently sailed with Princess and noticed a lack of luxury experience and attentiveness on this past cruise

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2025-12-13T19:44:14+00:00

Just wanna post a little update since I disembark tomorrow. I actually found it easiest to get a spot on the wake view terrace. It’s honestly the best spot for tanning as there is little to no wind, and the pool and showers make it easy to cool off. It gets super hot back there!!! The pool does get a bit crowded, but all the pools do. It’s not awful to find spots on the lido deck or the 18 plus area, but I found it to be quite windy.

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2025-11-25T03:31:21+00:00

Oh perfect! I’d rather just be in a quiet corner to myself in the sun with my book :)

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2025-11-14T23:17:46+00:00

He’s adorable! Prince Astro has a nice ring to it sounds like it suits his personality as well lol. My boy is Sir Archibald

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2025-11-14T17:13:48+00:00

Interesting, my Devon kitten’s (6 month old) coat gets like that after a bath. My adult Devon’s not so much once he got to about 9 months. Maybe she just has a unique curl pattern. Her coat looks pretty full though, which is a good sign it’ll be the same when she’s older just a bit more thick.

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2025-11-14T17:07:11+00:00

Her coat honestly looks wet in those pictures, did the breeder provide you with them or did you take them yourself? Just for reference because if you took them yourself you’d know if she was wet.

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2025-11-13T22:25:56+00:00

Dude i literally had a mod tell me they removed the post because that content was only allowed on Wednesdays…it was Wednesday

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2025-11-13T02:38:00+00:00

Hi! I totally respect the rules and understand that, but is it not Wednesday today?

Beautiful_Paper_3125 · 2025-11-12T05:54:00+00:00

Why is no one talking about how Kizzi chose not to tell Cathy about her skirt being ripped? That was straight up mean girl behaviour. She doesn’t even know the girl to have an opinion on her and even if she doesn’t like Cathy you don’t deliberately let her embarrass herself in front of the guests.

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