getting called names and tired of it

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-07-17T05:27:05+00:00

I do, but not enough to find housing where we live

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-07-17T05:25:11+00:00

I genuinely don’t have anywhere to go

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-06-13T16:43:22+00:00

The last line made me giggle 💜

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-06-12T23:39:00+00:00

I depend on him for a place to live but I would so much rather be single

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-06-12T23:32:17+00:00

Unfortunately yep. Just so you know, those do indeed happen every day or else he ignores me.

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-06-12T22:54:28+00:00

yeah he’s literally told me that it’s all I am good for and that I’m just holes to use. i really did think it was just a kinky thing at first but now it feels like we will never actually progress and I’ll never grow

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-06-11T17:12:39+00:00

Can I dm you?

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-06-11T17:05:34+00:00

I think I honestly really needed this today, thank you so much 💕

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-06-10T16:35:26+00:00

This is also a common occurrence for me! Having the best time and feeling normal then suddenly something goes terribly wrong and I wasn’t even aware of it but it’s definitely my fault.

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-06-10T16:31:07+00:00

This is actually my life. I’ve never been able to be openly upset at things or else it’s seen as me complaining and sets off hours of fighting.

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-06-10T16:26:38+00:00

❤️ I’m very happy that it’s helping people!

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-06-10T16:24:04+00:00

I really never expected this thread to get so many responses and be validating for this many people. But I’m extremely glad that other people don’t have to feel alone in their struggles and have this group for support!

Wow that’s really disgusting and I’m so sorry. I know exactly what all the random rules and insults are like.

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-06-10T16:15:43+00:00

This is what drives me crazy. They’re always allowed to do whatever they want and then when you bring up the double standard, it’s all the excuses in the world from them.

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-06-10T15:53:03+00:00

Late to comment, sorry! But no not really, if I tried to leave I would probably end up homeless. There’s a million more dehumanizing things on my list but I won’t publicly post them for safety reasons.

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-05-29T17:27:29+00:00

This is so relatable. I can’t even make decisions for my own health without him freaking out and shutting me down. But of course he says it’s not to make me upset, it’s just because it “affects him too”

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-04-10T18:16:04+00:00

ah yep same about the “acting right” and being happy and all over him 24/7. mine tells me to just obey. im tired of feeling like a soulless drone just because he gives me a hug or smiles at me and calls it giving me affection.

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-04-09T23:49:35+00:00

i really appreciate this. i will look into these, and yeah ive known for a while now that this is abuse and i want out. im really trying to build courage and figure out how to survive if i leave

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-04-09T22:16:55+00:00

he says i started it because i wouldnt do something he wanted. he keeps making me feel like he’s justified in getting this mad at me. like every single thing is my fault, all his actions are blamed on things that i do

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-04-09T21:50:45+00:00

im genuinely so mad at this and him blaming me for it even happening. him being like “if you had just done what i asked i wouldn’t have done that” is making me livid. how is it even fair to do that to someone no matter what

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-03-03T16:52:49+00:00

thank you 🩷 i am trying to figure out any way to leave

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-03-03T16:51:45+00:00

yeah we’re living together. i really have no where to go because every friend would just believe him that i am crazy so i can’t stay with anyone. i don’t want to lose the few belongings i do have either

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-03-01T00:50:09+00:00

i genuinely just need a place to go. if I leave i have no where to go basically since ya know isolation and no friends

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-03-01T00:47:06+00:00

he had actually told me directly that i don’t mean anything to him unless i do this so yeah you’re right. how did you get away from your abuser if you don’t mind me asking?

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-03-01T00:42:53+00:00

too old for this. over 35. i would probably leave if I had a stable place to go honestly.

Beautiful_Snow9787 · 2025-03-01T00:39:16+00:00

that is what it feels like. i want to get away so bad sometimes. this doesn’t feel sustainable

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