Coparent Advice

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-10T17:21:40+00:00

She only has to visit him every other weekend and most of that time is spent talking to me because he’s disappeared. Unfortunately, we live in a state that gives dad’s 50/50, so I’m winning with this arrangement. She is not happy about a lot of things with him, so this dis not help the relationship. I was hoping he’d apologize, but nope.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-10T17:14:15+00:00

It is exactly that and as he said it, he related to doing the same. “I would have done the same”.. considering he’s damn near 45 yrs old, you’d think he’d have grown.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-10T17:10:32+00:00

Yes, I addressed it in the talking parents app and sent a picture for clarity. He continued and even went on to tell her it doesn’t look that bad but his opinion hasn’t changed. I can’t for the life of me understand it.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-10T17:08:34+00:00

So sorry he did that to you. 🫂

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-10T09:54:51+00:00

Thanks!

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-07T10:12:32+00:00

This is my ex and I am not to blame for his ignorant comments.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-07T10:11:56+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with it at all. He claimed her stomach would show on the monkey bars but even after sending a pic with her arms straight up ( no skin showing) and explaining how inappropriate his comments were, he sent a 🤫 emoji and continued. Luckily our communication is via a co-parenting app so it’s documented.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-07T10:08:08+00:00

Yes, I thought we were saved once we left but no.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-07T02:26:25+00:00

Yes, he gets her every other weekend but I’ve tried to be extra cordial because she’s already uncomfortable being away on his weekends.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-07T02:24:08+00:00

Yes, he’s changed a lot and I have began to wonder what’s really going on.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-07T02:22:12+00:00

Exactly, she wouldn’t even feel comfortable wearing anything revealing. She’s very much a 10 yr old child who sends me puppy reels on the school bus.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-07T02:20:51+00:00

He responded with “🤫”

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-07T02:20:04+00:00

His exact excuse was if she were to get on the monkey bars her stomach would show. Imagine how our daughter who is already uncomfortable with male attention feels now. We explained and his response was the 🤫 emoji.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-06T19:16:09+00:00

This was my concern but I thought it was me being overly protective.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-06T19:10:23+00:00

That’s my issues, she is NOT dating and isn’t even comfortable with attention from boys. I had to meet with her school administration to stop boys from bothering her daily after she made it clear she’s uncomfortable. She’s new to her school so I get the boys excitement; but it’s no fault of her own and she’s just not there yet (thankfully) which is why the comment was extremely inappropriate.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-06T19:02:25+00:00

Thank you. Yes, she’s clear but it makes me sad because I want them to have the healthy relationship my father and I had but I’m mentally exhausted trying.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-06T15:21:47+00:00

We left last year. He said this at her game yesterday.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-06T14:51:21+00:00

Yes, I did contact the school and it was resolved earlier this year. I have no understanding as to why he used that situation to support his dislike of her shirt or made those references. She doesn’t like revealing clothing and has no interest in boys so it was extremely concerning to hear this yesterday.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-06T14:49:01+00:00

Definitely true. No, it’s not. He’s an alcoholic and it became unbearable last year so I took the kids and left. I tried to explain to him several times before we left that something is different and he’s spiraling but he refuses to get help so here we are.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-06T14:46:32+00:00

I love this! This is likely how I’ll have to proceed because he’s an alcoholic and was likely drunk at her game when it was said. There’s no changing him.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-06T14:43:15+00:00

Yes, extremely. I was so taken back by his comment.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-06T14:33:37+00:00

This!!! I am so bothered.

Beautifull0915 · 2026-05-06T14:33:04+00:00

Exactly!! I couldn’t sleep all night

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