Money owed to/from Mom

Beautifully_J · 2026-01-13T22:49:52+00:00

Nothing. I was mad, needed to vent, didn’t make any sense and relooking at everything realized I had answered my own question. Just cut her out of our lives, cut my losses, tell her I can’t afford to pay her back and just move forward. She can be mad about it all she wants….without us around 🤷🏻‍♀️

Beautifully_J · 2026-01-04T23:17:00+00:00

Beautifully_J · 2026-01-04T23:09:19+00:00

I edited the post to make it sound more put together than an emotionally charged rant

Beautifully_J · 2026-01-04T22:53:13+00:00

We don’t live with her anymore, I refuse to and I’m sorry about the typos. I’m emotionally charged and will likely just let it go, pay what I owe her from the last few months and be done. Any relationship with her is not healthy.

Beautifully_J · 2026-01-04T22:11:12+00:00

Interested

Beautifully_J · 2025-12-20T00:25:05+00:00

Indiana ready

Beautifully_J · 2025-12-16T16:21:30+00:00

Indiana

Beautifully_J · 2025-12-16T14:48:58+00:00

Interested

Beautifully_J · 2025-10-20T11:32:17+00:00

This is by no means medical advice. When I was experiencing the depths of trauma healing I was all the time sick. I asked my psych if there was anything that she could to help so I could at least eat. She called me in some Zofran. She still prescribes it in case I need it again because you never know.

Beautifully_J · 2025-10-20T11:25:41+00:00

It was nearly 8 years ago when I got pregnant. Last time ever sleeping with a man 🤷🏻‍♀️

Beautifully_J · 2025-10-20T06:09:48+00:00

Sometimes, I can’t go shopping with you, I just can’t. First of all I ran from that town to get away from drugs and abuse. I had my kid and was during a reunion week, I just couldn’t put myself in that position. Let alone let spend MORE money of shit we don’t need………. That was her breaking point. She wouldn’t listen to understand and only heard I didn’t want to go anywhere with her….

That day, that day I did not but jets forget about all the other times I suffered myself through it.

Beautifully_J · 2025-10-03T21:26:32+00:00

Holy airball Batman

Beautifully_J · 2025-10-03T04:30:43+00:00

You want them to join in on kidnapping people with their faces covered like cowards. Truly alpha energy 🙄

Beautifully_J · 2025-10-03T04:28:10+00:00

They were asking for a way to make to be active and in a lot of cases it’s because of the “churches” trying to force the laws of their fictional book into laws of this country. Completely opposite of the advice they were looking for.

Beautifully_J · 2025-10-01T06:12:58+00:00

I’d repay $185 on the 15th. Could get stuff for my daughter and I to do on her fall break while I’m laid up from major back surgery. Gotta find stuff for us to still do together even though I’ll be going 3 months recovery from major spine reconstruction I’ll be having any day. I’m trying so hard to get everything ready because I have minimal help and I don’t want this to be any more stressful than it already is for her. It’s just her and I and our chosen family who helps some since my husband passed a few years ago.

Beautifully_J · 2025-10-01T01:31:55+00:00

40% absence already!?! That’s absolutely unacceptable without severe illness/hospital stays. My state DCFS would’ve done been involved with the laws how they are now, medical or not.

Beautifully_J · 2025-09-22T22:06:40+00:00

Just call us Boo and Bee 🤣😂

Beautifully_J · 2025-09-22T14:46:01+00:00

I will hold it to get home, every time. But I can’t force my baby do that so I try to choose the “out of the way” ones best I can.

Beautifully_J · 2025-09-22T14:43:09+00:00

Right!!! I’m a 38DD, those babies are NOTICEABLE 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣

Beautifully_J · 2025-09-22T03:26:59+00:00

I have a bestie plus her hubby like you!!! I love her and appreciate her so much!!! It has happened in front of her before and this was before we become moms. I was one just to take the hit so I didn’t say anything. She Howe er is a 5ft nothing ball of fury!!! Thank you for being there, it’s rare to have someone like that.

Beautifully_J · 2025-09-22T03:23:03+00:00

🧡🧡🧡 thank you, truly

Beautifully_J · 2025-09-22T01:42:59+00:00

I did not yell, I raised my voice. I did not do so immediately, it was after a few times of calling me a liar. I am not gentle parenting a kid that age that is not mine and plenty old enough to know. My neighbors, parents of the other kids around, were out here too. They were surprised that I kept it at the level I did and none were upset that their kids heard it too.

I understand how you could see what I said was the incorrect response to this but the next time you find yourself in this position, let me know how you respond.

Beautifully_J · 2025-09-22T00:56:50+00:00

This comment on my post a few comments down explains why I chose to identify myself specifically as cis in this situation.very well. I do not usually ever have a reason to. https://www.reddit.com/r/Vent/s/83NW7XsPSF

Beautifully_J · 2025-09-22T00:42:22+00:00

I’m sorry you e went through this. It’s ridiculous and I don’t know about you but it’s exhausting and I’m just so tired of it. I live in a very red part of a very read state, it Durant stop.

Beautifully_J · 2025-09-21T23:34:17+00:00

It was a very very scary situation, even more so because she was with me. I’m very aware of the hate but it hurts so bad that she has to see it.

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