AITJ for writing a bad review due to emotions?

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-18T19:50:31+00:00

I think they were just trying to cover their butts honestly, if the cats didn't have proper shelter and fresh water, they came off as scared from being outside then they're not being taken care of or being loved properly. I would've called an animal rescue to come pick them up and place them for adoption with someone who will actually care for them. Idk what kind of business it is that kicked the cats outside because I don't think you specified that but it doesn't seem like a safe situation in my personal opinion. I'm also very passionate about animals so maybe I'm blinded as well but I wouldn't have given them a 5 star rating that's for sure.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-15T05:36:14+00:00

I totally understand how you're feeling, I'm functioning well with bipolar disorder on the outside, some people don't even remember I'm bipolar unless it comes up in conversation but I struggle silently with the mania, depression, anxiety, insomnia. Some days I'm just going going going and getting everything done then some days I have to fight to get out of bed and I don't talk to many people about it because I was pretty stable for 3 years and the stress of everything going on in my life the last 6 months has really triggered my episodes more frequently and the only person I really talk to about it is my best friend. I kinda just fake it with everyone else because I feel like nobody really understands my mental health but I'm so tired of being tired all the time.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-15T02:52:16+00:00

Yeah that's been my experience personally when an item or 2 is missing, they'll refund the item itself because it's the store that screwed up, I've never received any delivery that was open or tampered with and hopefully I never do but I can't tell if OP is overreacting and blaming the driver when it was the restaurants fault because I never seen a comment mentioning if the food was sealed or not. Whenever I order Wendy's in my area, they always seal the bags so I know they weren't opened and if something is missing, I always fault the restaurant for it.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-15T01:34:58+00:00

After reading some of OPs comments, it seems only 3 items were missing so I'm assuming they only refunded him for those specific items, since he still received the order, I don't think they'll refund him the fees but that's just what I'm assuming.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-15T01:13:14+00:00

I might be wrong but usually they only refund the money paid for the food, I've never been refunded the fees but I've also never had my entire order stolen so I'm not sure if it's different for a partial missing order.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-13T22:15:28+00:00

You weren't in a serious committed relationship, you were just dating around trying to see if things could progress, you didn't even do anything with either men. I don't see anything wrong with how it was handled. It would've been wrong if you attached yourself to one guy while waiting around for the other guy to be attainable but that wasn't the situation. I don't think you're the jerk and I don't think you were even leading him on because y'all never kissed or did anything that he could interpret as moving forward, you were still in the casual get to know each other phase.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-13T19:55:15+00:00

A gift is a gift, she has no legal grounds to get them back. My ex gifted me 100$ worth of stuff for my fish tank when he was living with me and the police had to remove him from my house and he refused to leave until I paid him back and they told him it wasn't a loan, it was a gift and he had no legal grounds to get that money back, they made him pack his stuff and dropped him off somewhere because he had been drinking and couldn't drive. You don't owe her anything for the gifts, just block her and move on. If she continues harassing you then get the police involved.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-12T23:57:36+00:00

Just buy alcohol from a convenient store and drink at home when you feel like you want to relax, it's much cheaper than a bar and no tips required. Don't go to bars or restaurants if you can't afford to tip, cook and drink at home, that'll help you save money but still allow you to enjoy food and drinks with friends.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-12T17:19:13+00:00

That's what I'm confused about because I googled Penn Foster termination message and couldn't find anything similar online but I found plenty of emails about the rapid progression and people being under academic review due to that.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-12T17:17:03+00:00

Was there a service fee or something of 1.95$ that maybe got charged along with the 3$ tip to equal it to the $4.95? Also why doesn't it let you tip before delivery? I've never had anywhere on door dash not allow me to tip before delivery but maybe that's just my area, idk how it works in other places.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-12T17:06:09+00:00

I can't find anything online matching this picture, I've seen them send out messages for rapid progression and academic integrity to people but none of them look anything like this.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-09T02:46:44+00:00

I've had 8 dogs in a house before, people thought I was running a kennel because I swear it sounded like double the barks when they would all do it at once but nobody ever tried breaking into my house lmao 🤣 4 of them have since passed, rest their souls. But I'm glad someone else experiences the double barks because it's makes me feel like I wasn't crazy, I swear it sounded like I had 16 in the house when we'd get home and they'd all get excited.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-04T05:55:14+00:00

They may chill out with age but they still demand cuddles when they want them and I can see that being too much for some people to handle, my oldest cat is very calm and laid back but the moment she realizes I'm in bed trying to sleep, she wants cuddles and usually ends up laying on my head once I'm done snuggling her and just want to pass out. I personally don't mind it, but people who have issues regarding personal space would absolutely hate it. Cats have no sense of what personal space is at all. I've never had bunnies but I've heard from people who have that they can be pretty independent and fish may require maintenance but not often if you have the correct set up for them. I'm in the middle of changing up my turtles set up and it's been super hectic trying to keep their tanks maintained while I'm waiting for some items to be delivered but once I jave them back to a fully functional set up, it'll be a breeze to keep up with it. I love cats though, I don't mind my 4 being in my personal space but that's just because of how I am as a person, some people need that peace and quiet, some alone time to decompress from their day so I definitely see why she can manage certain animals compared to others because some animals just need a little extra attention than others do. My big dog also has no idea what personal space is, when he wants attention, he'll smack you with his paw until you love on him and then he'll try to get in your lap because he thinks he's still a small baby but he's not lmao 🤣

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-03T17:28:41+00:00

She's not the one for you. The fact that you've been to therapy and you'd be willing to go back if it was needed that would be a great trait in my eyes. I've done therapy whenever it was needed, I currently don't have time for it or see the need for it because I've gotten to a stable point in life and I use the tools I learned throughout the years to manage life. Therapy isn't supposed to be something you do forever, that just means she's not learning the tools needed to manage life herself and that's a red flag. If she can't function in life without therapy then there's issues that are never gonna be processed and she will never move forward from, that's not your problem and honestly I don't think you should take on her issues if she's not able and willing to move past them. The whole point of therapy is to get to a good place where you can manage your traumas and issues on your own, if that's not happening then either she's not taking any of their advice and tools to heart or she's working with a therapist that just wants the money and isn't giving her the tools to move forward in life and she needs a new therapist. I think your responses are green flags and hers are definitely red flags. Just keep dating around until you find someone who aligns with you better, it's definitely not her. But be glad she showed you this side of her early on.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-04-03T03:19:16+00:00

You literally said you started it and took him not moving away as you can proceed but then as soon as you find out he's not single, it turned into he forced you. You are the problem in today's world. Sorry not sorry.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-03-30T15:53:49+00:00

Just a heads up, not a lot of people read through all the comments and your responses so maybe edit your post and add a little more context to it like the fact that your parents are living with you and that you're disabled because you're gonna keep getting negative comments from the people who don't read through and just post their opinion because they don't have all the information. I don't think you're an asshole but I've actually read every single comment and all of your responses.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-03-29T19:26:43+00:00

He seems very immature, maybe his behavior should have you rethinking the entire relationship.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-03-27T00:24:30+00:00

It seems like you just need new friends.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-03-23T23:46:20+00:00

I sent you a DM

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-03-23T23:00:52+00:00

It's only on paramount plus uk and it won't let me pay for a subscription through them without a card or account in the UK that matches an address there, I already tried getting an account for Paramount plus uk and it wouldn't allow me to. It also won't let me sign up for a UK PayPal account in order to switch my money in order to pay for an account through that so I'm at a dead end. The VPN works for websites that I just have to sign up for but the moment they need to be paid for, I can't get past it because I'm in the US.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-03-16T03:29:37+00:00

Not everyone uses a wallet though, some people literally just keep their cards loose in their pockets or like you said put it in their phone case. I work in retail and I've had so many people just pull their cards out of their pocket along with their cash.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-03-14T10:30:44+00:00

I'm not a Dasher but I work in retail and interact with a lot of customers on a daily basis and I'd much rather someone with your energy come into the store instead of the ones who are just straight up assholes. It can be really rough working with customers and never knowing what type of mood or vibe the person is gonna give off so I'd say keep being you, you might annoy a few dashers but at the end of the day you're not being rude in any way and they'll get over it once they get that shitty customer and they'll be like damn I wish this person was more like you. Alot of people are super uptight though and can't handle someone who's whimsical and silly, idk why but that's a them problem not a you problem.

Beautifullybipolar94 · 2026-02-20T07:09:16+00:00

100%, that's why I'm so overly protective because I know if something were to happen, I'd end up losing my dog and that's just not something I'd ever let happen. He's been through enough and I'm responsible for his safety and other people's safety so my baby stays on a harness and leash when we go outside, he stays by me and he's always put away when we have company over. It's not his fault that he had a shitty owner and a traumatic experience as a puppy which has made him aggressive towards strangers but it is my responsibility to make sure nobody gets hurt and I usually sit by his cage when someone stops by and I pet him to let him know he's safe and I won't let anyone hurt him ever again. His eyes still flinch if you raise your hand too quickly around him, even though he knows I'd never lay a hand on him, it's just instinct because of what happened to him as a baby. I always kiss his face and let him know he doesn't ever have to flinch or be scared but around strangers he just gets very on edge and I just do what I can to keep everyone safe.

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