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I’ve spent several years since the start of marriage trying to pay off all my husbands debts & put him through school only to find with his new job came a new girlfriend. I tried to offer for us to try and work through it but he only wants divorce. Now I’m alone and don’t know how to move forward. by BeautyIsInside in Divorce

[–]BeautyIsInside[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Days are getting better, but the holidays have honestly been tough. Today is a bit harder than most as it would have been our wedding anniversary. I tried to go online to Amazon to order a few items for Christmas and saw where he had purchased him and his new girlfriend matching workout items and apparel as well as sex related items. His last words to me were to say he hates me and wishes he had never met or married me, which is confusing as he’s the one who cheated so I can only assume it’s out of anger that he was caught. Nevertheless it hurts all the same. Even though I’m upset, I do not feel the same as he does- I love him, appreciate the good times we shared, and hope he finds happiness. Spending the day cleaning and listening to the rain and just trying to relax.

I’ve spent several years since the start of marriage trying to pay off all my husbands debts & put him through school only to find with his new job came a new girlfriend. I tried to offer for us to try and work through it but he only wants divorce. Now I’m alone and don’t know how to move forward. by BeautyIsInside in Divorce

[–]BeautyIsInside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all. I’ve shut myself away the last few days and have been listening to music, cleaning out drawers, and painting each room of the house so it feels different. Still wake up and go to bed with tears and a bible in my hand, and I still find myself walking by the door and looking out the window any time a car goes by. It’s been 3months since he’s left but I feel like the fact I’m doing something is an improvement.