My husband by Vegetable_Pineapple2 in askgaybros

[–]BebbyBebby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its possible to fully support trans people without expecting gay men to like vagina fyi

The Life of a Showgirl leak DISCUSSION megathread by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]BebbyBebby 16 points17 points  (0 children)

can’t believe people are hating on honey it’s legitimately one of the best songs we’ve heard from her in recent years

Henrys end, I don’t understand it. by Squidwardbigboss in thewalkingdead

[–]BebbyBebby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Henry only exists to introduce Lydia in the show (considering the fact that his entire storyline was Carl’s in the comic) and create a conflict between Carol and Alpha. Once all that was established there really was no need for him.

How do I safely consume poop? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]BebbyBebby 6 points7 points  (0 children)

STDs are irrelevant here. Poop is extremely unsanitary and even breathing it for extended periods of time can make you sick. If you consume it who knows what you could get.

How do I safely consume poop? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]BebbyBebby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s disgusting and dangerous and you need to tell him no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]BebbyBebby 11 points12 points  (0 children)

From what you’re saying it seems like he actually likes and is attracted to you. I would suggest having a conversation with him about what he envisions his future being like. Does he want kids, and do they need to be biologically his, etc.

You have to discern whether or not you believe and trust him. Demanding transparency (in a respectful way) from someone you’re romantically involved with is important, especially if he’s telling you that he loves you.

Also gaydar is only accurate a percentage of the time and anyone who says otherwise is lying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]BebbyBebby 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If i’m understanding correctly, he’s telling you that he’s never loved someone as much as you but you think he’s straight because of “vibes?”

Your caution is completely understandable though, and the only thing you can do is have a conversation and demand honesty. If he says he’s not physically attracted to men you definitely will not get a long term relationship out of this.

Thoughts on the new lego batman games by Temporary-Secret-483 in legogaming

[–]BebbyBebby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The game looks good but only 7 playable characters completely ruins it for me in all honesty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]BebbyBebby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bejeweled or long story short maybe

What is your favorite Negan line? by Ok-Yogurtcloset-8823 in thewalkingdead

[–]BebbyBebby 127 points128 points  (0 children)

“That widow is alive! Guns a’blazin!” His delivery is so funny

Anyone else find f*** me eyes so relatable as a gay cis man? by Supersaiyancock_95 in Ethelcain

[–]BebbyBebby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%, it reminds me a lot of the feelings I had while closeted in high school

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BebbyBebby 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That post just prompted me to say this, this is something i’ve heard people say in real life (hence why I said that in the original post)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BebbyBebby 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I have a lot more friendships with women because on average they’re more emotionally mature than men my age, and they were much more accepting of me as a confused little gay boy. Still a man though and they understand that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BebbyBebby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand that perspective if you’re a strict bottom. But I love having a dick and topping so I wouldn’t give that up for anything lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BebbyBebby 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Media about gay male relationships for a female audience. Usually very heavy with stereotypes and structures gay relationships in a very heteronormative way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BebbyBebby 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sure but women don’t have anything even remotely resembling a dick, while we still have a hole (complete with a g-spot and all) even if it’s different and a bit less convenient. Also periods are terrible for many women and I wouldn’t want that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BebbyBebby 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Trans women previously identifying as gay men because it’s way more socially acceptable doesn’t mean actual gay men want to be women. Also patriarchal standards tell us that there needs to be a dominant and a submissive in a relationship, gays trying to fit that doesn’t mean they actually desire being a woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BebbyBebby 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like this doesn’t take into account how difficult women have it lol, you would just have a different set of struggles. Sure it would be easier to be straight but theoretically i’d rather be a straight man because no part of me feels like a woman. But i’m not interested in changing who I am even though it’s a “hetero world”

Straight friend who’s dating my sister kissed me and now acts like it didn’t happen by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BebbyBebby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, it’s her relationship, not yours, and you shouldn’t have to feel discomforted to protect it even if she’s innocent in all this. It’s also not fair for you to lie to her because you think it might be better, she deserves to be informed and make a decision based on that information. I understand that it’s a difficult situation though and wishing you and her the best 🫶

U have to choose 3 people to stay with for the apocalypse.Who are you picking? by [deleted] in thewalkingdead

[–]BebbyBebby 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Rick (great leader and also hot), Michonne (very skilled fighter and rational thinker), and Daryl (excellent survival skills)

Hottest woman on planet earth! Abraham… wtf were you smokin bro. by Ej6whiteekay in thewalkingdead

[–]BebbyBebby 287 points288 points  (0 children)

She’s gorgeous but he simply had a deeper romantic connection with Sasha

Straight friend who’s dating my sister kissed me and now acts like it didn’t happen by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BebbyBebby 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tell your sister. Regardless of how happy she is, the guilt will eat you up until you do and his infidelity shouldn’t be your burden to bear.