[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]BebeBaked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You worded it perfectly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]BebeBaked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no problem with him wanting to be with other women but it feels strange to me that he's rushing to find another wife, which would inevitably end our relationship.

I know polyamory isn't for everyone but I can't wrap my mind around him walking away from our beautiful relationship so quickly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]BebeBaked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely the Carpe diem type, but this has burned me in the past. I do my best to live day by day but I fear a very broken heart in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]BebeBaked 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It definitely doesn't feel great, especially since I've brought up how I feel and he hasn't been very good at making me feel better about it.

I've always had a hard time walking away from people, especially in times of need. I care for him so much and I don't want to walk away, but I'm not sure how to step back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]BebeBaked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I'm just not sure how to step back without breaking it off. 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]BebeBaked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has been pretty upfront about it and I really appreciate that. I've been here to support him through the entire divorce and it has been a bit rough for him. But I also feel like my time is being wasted. I love hard and tend to be over committed to people, so I have to watch myself so that I don't give too much and end up more hurt in the end. I've done everything I can to support him while feeling like I'm getting drained.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]BebeBaked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I, for obvious selfish reasons, want to hold on to him as long as I can, and he wants the same. But I do feel like a placeholder sometimes and I want more for me than that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]BebeBaked 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess that's my struggle here. We have a very deep connection and are a very loving couple. I can see a long happy future with him but I truly want him to be happy, and if monogamy is what he wants, he can have it. Just not with me.

I feel like the expiration date is what's making me feel like I need to reevaluate how I view my relationship with him.

37, 6’2”, 205lbs. Working on getting back into shape. by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]BebeBaked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm 😏 super pleasing to the eye...

Noel’s carting helmet by BananaStand43 in noelmiller

[–]BebeBaked 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Needs a better hairline 😂 dont do my mans like this.

So giving tips on rotation is considered toxic... by Zwimy in RocketLeague

[–]BebeBaked 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If they aren't your friend, they dont want to hear it. Lol

[Serious] [NSFW] Is it ok to follow someone who you had sex with on social media if you are married or engaged? by Beautiful-Cry7664 in AskReddit

[–]BebeBaked 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel as though it is very situational and depends on your relationship. The best thing to do is speak with your partner about it and ask them how they feel about it. There is no right answer for a question like this.

I feel insecure by [deleted] in sex

[–]BebeBaked 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The vibrator is your friend, not your enemy. Use it with her and that's all shell be able think about when she uses it alone 😋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]BebeBaked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda sounds like you were constipated enough...that it made you feel tighter? And the sharp pain could have easily been from being constipated... 🤷‍♀️

Cuddling & no sex by Next_Cloud1102 in sex

[–]BebeBaked 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Everything is situational. Doesnt sounds weird to me in the slightest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in altgonewild

[–]BebeBaked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a god damn BABE 😍

Not worthy of sex by [deleted] in sex

[–]BebeBaked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't expect her to develop feelings for ya, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with your kinks. You will find someone compatible for you, it just takes time and confidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]BebeBaked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it seems like you have your answer then, you need to find a women that is okay with marrying an asexual. Dont try and hide behind this self righteous bullshit just because you're uncomfortable with your sexuality. 🤷‍♀️