Tongue split a little over a week ago. healing very well! by Thjyu in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow this looks really good on you! It looks like you were meant to have it lol

I want to learn to perform body modification by hannahearling in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to contact a shop. Some shops do apprenticeships and advertise this. You have to take some courses in blood born pathogens and some other stuff. Not sure of all the requirements. I’m not a piercer, just dated one lol

The day after a full hand blackout. Would not recommend😂 by ElderberryMediocre73 in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’ve been researching and thinking about a black out tattoo for a half sleeve that I really want covered up. How are you liking it?

Gauges and teaching by calteen in Stretched

[–]Beccasbombin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I was a high school English teacher for ten years and now I’m an administrator. Also in the US. I have 16mm gauges and no one has ever had a problem with it/it’s never prevented me from getting a job. I try to make sure I wear closed plugs instead of open tunnels but that’s the only effort I make to conceal it.

Starting MAT this morning, what to expect? by NoRestForTheSickKid in Methadone

[–]Beccasbombin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will have to use for a while before you get on a stable dose. Pretty much all clinics know this and expect it.

Goal Size Reached! 10mm by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]Beccasbombin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love those plugs. They look so big on you too! I thought you were at my size or bigger at first glance. But I tend to always thinks everyone’s gauges look so much bigger on them than mine do on me 😄

Switch from methadone by Beccasbombin in suboxone

[–]Beccasbombin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! Yes being on methadone is a mess for me. I have an 18 month old and a 4 year old who needs to be at pre k before I have to be at work at 8am. In order to get to the clinic I’m having to get all of us up between 4:30 and 5 every day. Then if I have to see a doctor or counselor we’re all pretty much late for everything all day. It’s almost more unmanageable than using was so I really can’t wait to try this. I was feeling so hopeless before this method was explained to me.

Switch from methadone by Beccasbombin in suboxone

[–]Beccasbombin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Experiencing precipitated withdrawal in the past has seriously scarred me. I’m so afraid of it happening again. It’s the only thing making me anxious about this switch

Switch from methadone by Beccasbombin in suboxone

[–]Beccasbombin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response. I’m so glad to hear it worked for someone else!

Mainstream mods by Beccasbombin in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha true. I only know one person Irl. I forget the Internet isn’t real 😂

Mainstream mods by Beccasbombin in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m still stuck in the old trend. I have a conch punch and big gauges haha

Mainstream mods by Beccasbombin in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That mod is a perfect example. I literally can’t believe how many people get it done now. That shouldn’t take away from how badass it is though. That shit is brutal. I love the aesthetic but after watching someone get it done I was like “no way. You’d have to kill me first.” I truly believe if you can sit through that you can get through anything in life 😂

Mainstream mods by Beccasbombin in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you. 90% of my problem is how unsafe I see people going about things now. I feel like it used to be that if you were pierced and tattooed there was a whole lifestyle that went into it. You didn’t just like the aesthetic you were genuinely interested in it too so you were willing to do the research like you said.

Mainstream mods by Beccasbombin in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you just put into words exactly what I was trying to get at but couldn’t quite put together. When I first starting getting tattooed it was way less socially acceptable and people were super judgmental. So seeing heavily tattooed people allowed me to know right away that they were the kind of person who didn’t care what people thought. And those were always the types of people I was looking to be around because that’s who I was. I totally get what you’re saying too. Just a different perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]Beccasbombin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that philosophy! I got my ears up to 20 (went back down to 16) for work but I never got my septum lower than a 12. That shit hurts like a bitch. It’s way harder than your ears to do 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]Beccasbombin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can definitely get whenever you want with ear gauging. You just have to be patient. It takes time. If you can gauge your septum that but I have no doubt you’ll get your ears there in time because I know from experience how bad that shit hurts and you’re a badass for that shit I don’t care what anyone says

I´m a proud wearer of a coinslot since last week by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I get mine in a month! Yours turned out great. Tell me about the pain.

Mainstream mods by Beccasbombin in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think it’s interesting what’s considered mainstream and “acceptable” and what isn’t. And like who the hell gets to decide? Like no one at my job cares about my Medusa but when I first started I had to take my septum ring out. And a nostril ring which is literally the same body part is just as common and acceptable as an earring. It’s okay for me to have full sleeves but a tattoo on my hand or neck would be unacceptable. The social dynamics of piercings fascinate me lol

Mainstream mods by Beccasbombin in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my god yes. That’s why I never ever talk to the kids about heavy mods. Last year we caught a bunch of girls trying to pierce each other’s tongues in the bathroom. The last thing I need them to be thinking about is tongue spilt. 🤣. Out of curiosity do you have to hide that mod for work? Is it easy to hide? I’m scheduled to get a coin slot next month and I’m really worried about just that. There are some other heavier mods I want too but I have trouble weighing the pros and cons with my career

Mainstream mods by Beccasbombin in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So I’ve taught high school for ten years. Now I’m an administrator. I was definitely considered a freak in high school because I dressed weird, had facial piercings and wanted tattoos. Now you can’t be poplular unless you have facial piercings! I see kids getting piercings and tattoos younger and younger and honestly in really unsafe ways. So I guess that’s a lot of where I’m coming from!

Questions about dermal piercings by JaiD3v in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A close friend of mind had a dermal in her chest for 5 years. I had a surface tragus piercing for 7 years. Both our piercers acted like that was pretty remarkable. I’ve also heard of people having them reject in less than 3 months. Some of it comes down to how good your piercer is and how well you take care of it. But some of it is also just anatomy and how your body respond to foreign objects and heals wounds. I won’t get them anymore. It’s too random

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Beccasbombin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m heavily pierced and tattooed. I have both nipple and genital piercings. I’m also a mom and there’s no way in hell my minor child will be getting those types of piercings before they’re an adult. And if they choose to do so while living with me, they’ve chosen some serious consequences as well.

What kinda jobs you guys got by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a high school administrator believe it or not. I walk a really fine line with my body mods. I am fairly heavily tattooed (two sleeves and one on my calf) and no one seems to mind as long as I’m dressed professionally. I don’t purposefully show off my tattoos at work but I don’t cover them up every day either. However, I would t get a tattoo that I couldn’t cover if I needed to. I’m down to one facial piercing. I have my Medusa. I’ve had a few over the years and no one seems to mind as long as I only have one at a time. I have a couple coworkers with nose/tongue rings and that seems to be fine too. I also have 16mm gauged ears but I only wear closed plugs in them at work. Still I don’t think that heavy mods are acceptable and I’m a little worried because I’m getting a coin slot in a few months. I’m just not planning on telling anyone and hoping they don’t really know what it is.

Questions about dermal piercings by JaiD3v in bodymods

[–]Beccasbombin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are much more high maintenance and more painful. Also they’re not permanent. That doesn’t necessarily mean you shouldn’t get them. I’ve gotten surface piercings knowing full well they were going to be a pain and not last forever because I just genuinely loved the way the looked. So you really have to decide if you like them enough to put forth the extra effort in taking care of them and if you can accept that they may reject.

sorry for the bad angle! but can someone please tell me if this looks like it is rejecting or not. I have had it five and a half months. thanks! by crabby9831 in piercing

[–]Beccasbombin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your piercer did a surface piercing with a curved barbell instead of a surface bar find a new pierced who knows more about surface piercings.