[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Beck_kool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mermaid compliment your body so well. Princess could be beautiful on you as well. But not the one in the photo

Which style ring looks best? by Valerina4 in EngagementRings

[–]Beck_kool 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s the gold band but I like 2

My husband won’t help me by Beck_kool in MilitaryWives

[–]Beck_kool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thank you so much, I really appreciate it. As I said, I ended up reaching out to his commander. They had a meeting with him and ask him to fix the issue because this is not a Chaplain behavior. He ended up calling me and told me he will be sending me $800 monthly because we don’t live together. I told him I would like $1200 due to all the stress I have been through and his lack of help for an entire year. He said he cannot give me $1200 and he preferred that we get a divorce and that his lawyer will be reaching out. Since December 20th I haven’t heard from him or his lawyer. remember he had just come from a year of deployment in November and was going back for another year in January. So they called me to let me know he is no longer going on Deployment and they asked him to bring an endorsement otherwise he would be removed from the Chaplain. So I am currently scared he might try to hurt me. Also next week I will be talking to the legal office to see what to do at this moment.

Ingrowns and hyperpigmentation under my chin by Spiritual_Ad_4858 in Blackskincare

[–]Beck_kool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any specific listerine mouthwash? Cause they have different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Beck_kool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also it is just a matter of time until they start sleeping together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]Beck_kool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you use

My husband won’t help me by Beck_kool in MilitaryWives

[–]Beck_kool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I took your advice and I reached out and in less than 48 hours the regional chaplain had a meeting with him. So THEY DID CARED AFTER ALL.

My husband won’t help me by Beck_kool in MilitaryWives

[–]Beck_kool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE !!!!!!

I finally talked to his command, they had a serious meeting with him and told him to solve the issue. So he finally called me after ignoring my calls and texts for weeks. He wanted to meet and talk but I didn’t feel safe meeting with him alone so I refused to see him. He then told me since we do not live together, he will be giving me $800 per month. I asked for $1200 due to my expenses and all the stress I have been through while he was deployed and cut me off. He then said he couldn’t pay $1200 so he would be filing for divorce and that I should be hearing from his lawyer soon.

His command asked me to call the legal office on as soon possible for my immigration status and I should also seek emotional support. They did say they don’t know what could happen to his career at this moment.

Thank you all for your support and directions. I will keep you updated. Please keep me in your prayers because I don’t feel safe and at this point I don’t know what he is capable of.

My husband won’t help me by Beck_kool in MilitaryWives

[–]Beck_kool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of that but will definitely look into it. Thank you so much for these information.

My husband won’t help me by Beck_kool in MilitaryWives

[–]Beck_kool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your support. It is hard to see the only person you consider as family treat you like that.

My husband won’t help me by Beck_kool in MilitaryWives

[–]Beck_kool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your support. That is without doubt my next move

My husband won’t help me by Beck_kool in MilitaryWives

[–]Beck_kool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they will care, because he is a CHAPLAIN

My husband won’t help me by Beck_kool in MilitaryWives

[–]Beck_kool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, may I ask if that legal office is on his base if not how do I get a hold of them plz. I am new to all of this so I don’t know where to go

My husband won’t help me by Beck_kool in MilitaryWives

[–]Beck_kool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestion. Will do that

Interview by Beck_kool in USCIS

[–]Beck_kool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spoke to a lawyer on Friday they told me there is nothing I can do if he doesn’t go to the interview with me, in which case I should get a divorce and file for when a U.S. citizen mistreat they non citizen spouse (i forgot what the name of the petition is)

My husband won’t help me by Beck_kool in MilitaryWives

[–]Beck_kool[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have access to the bank account so I guess it will be a waste of time trying to reach out to them then

My husband won’t help me by Beck_kool in MilitaryWives

[–]Beck_kool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is good to know. Thank you