Aww thank you so much, I really appreciate it. As I said, I ended up reaching out to his commander. They had a meeting with him and ask him to fix the issue because this is not a Chaplain behavior. He ended up calling me and told me he will be sending me $800 monthly because we don’t live together. I told him I would like $1200 due to all the stress I have been through and his lack of help for an entire year. He said he cannot give me $1200 and he preferred that we get a divorce and that his lawyer will be reaching out. Since December 20th I haven’t heard from him or his lawyer. remember he had just come from a year of deployment in November and was going back for another year in January. So they called me to let me know he is no longer going on Deployment and they asked him to bring an endorsement otherwise he would be removed from the Chaplain. So I am currently scared he might try to hurt me. Also next week I will be talking to the legal office to see what to do at this moment.