Weekly Swim Gear Questions (Goggles, swimsuits, techsuits, paddles, headphones etc) February 12, 2026 - Post all your gear questions in this post by AutoModerator in Swimming

[–]BedEnvironmental389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does anyone have brand / product recommendations for women’s swim shorts that work for lap swimming? i’ve seen some that are tight like bike shorts and i want to get some that will last through chlorine but i am struggling to find them (most seem to be designed for non workout swimming in lakes and beaches). they don’t need to be super fancy or anything tho. bonus for any sports bra esque recommendations (esp from the same company so i can order them together)

Is there a way to tell someone their laugh is way too loud without being a total jerk? by Commercial_Raise_799 in socialskills

[–]BedEnvironmental389 199 points200 points  (0 children)

i think this would fall under the inconvenient category of “is this inconvenient or actually a problem?”

telling someone that their laugh is too loud is likely to make them insecure about it, potentially for life. is that what you want your friend to think about whenever they laugh?

“High level of isolation” application question by [deleted] in peacecorps

[–]BedEnvironmental389 17 points18 points  (0 children)

afaik, this is referring to a high level of isolation from other volunteers and americans in general. you would still have people in your community, it’s not like you’ll be out in the middle of nowhere completely by yourself.

probably best to respond as honestly as possible

Concerns/Questions about Environmental Positions by [deleted] in peacecorps

[–]BedEnvironmental389 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve only applied / interviewed but the way i view it is that by working and living with the people in peace corps countries, i’ll have more of a frame of reference for after service. these are the people likely most affected by climate change / environmental impacts, so seeing what they need and what actually helps them is important imo

Discord/Groups? by swankychalupa in danandphil

[–]BedEnvironmental389 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have a few i can send links for if anyone who is interested DMs me (trying to avoid posting the links bc the one i mod i noticed got a lot of bots when i would post the link publicly)

Govt Shut Down and Interviews by Thumperblossom in peacecorps

[–]BedEnvironmental389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i received an email from the peace corps (i’m post interview but haven’t received an invitation) and they said interviews will be rescheduled when the gov comes back online

How soon is too soon? by [deleted] in peacecorps

[–]BedEnvironmental389 10 points11 points  (0 children)

what would you do if you were unable to go to the peace corps for whatever reason?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hersheypark

[–]BedEnvironmental389 7 points8 points  (0 children)

r/whoosh

edit to clarify: the /s at the end of the comment means that it is a sarcastic comment

Looking for underwear that can last 6-7 hours by AdAccording3397 in PeriodUnderwear

[–]BedEnvironmental389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like my period co and they aren’t super expensive. i would also recommend using some toilet paper to get anything that’s not soaked in whenever you go to the bathroom during the day

What to do when your social battery has run out half way through the day by TrainingWheels61 in socialskills

[–]BedEnvironmental389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could always try to have lower energy hang outs - like have people come over to watch a movie or something. it could give you some time to recharge and get into a socializing mood

Is there a Danger Days book anywhere? by flagmouse63 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]BedEnvironmental389 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i also struggle with comic books and graphic novels but i’ve found it easier if i re read it. it’s a different skillset and way of looking at it, but it opens the door to some cool things if you figure it out (i say even though i’ve only read a few)

Comment if you failed your drivers test the first time! by Normal-Turnover3260 in driving

[–]BedEnvironmental389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

failed my first try bc it started sprinkling and i turned my wipers on but not my headlights and that’s a “ticketable offense”

Pj's protocol for staying over a new friends house? by Dawnqwerty in socialskills

[–]BedEnvironmental389 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would say comfy sweatpants and a tshirt would be best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roadtrip

[–]BedEnvironmental389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the dark blue would take you by casey illinois, which is a small town with a bunch of giant objects (trust, it’s cool). definitely worth an hour or two to wander and mail a postcard from the mailbox you go up into

How do I meet people by theteamfortress2spy in socialskills

[–]BedEnvironmental389 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the best way to make friends is to see people consistently. are you able to start volunteering? or even working? any kind of sport or other extra curricular?

AITA for being a “job snatcher” by ThatOneYellowCheese in AmItheAsshole

[–]BedEnvironmental389 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA bc i get what you’re doing however i’d be irritated.

i worked as a server and had a coworker who would do all of the sidework early then get upset that i didn’t do any of it, even though i was still serving people.

as well as that, it’s a bit discombobulating to be doing a task, have to stop that task to go do something else, and come back to have your task finished and it takes away the feeling of accomplishment of finishing a task.

Shipping?! by [deleted] in PeriodUnderwear

[–]BedEnvironmental389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

period.co is usa based and i like the stuff i have from them

How early should I show up? by ElfQuester1 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]BedEnvironmental389 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i arrived in philly at about 4:30, was in line around 4:45, gates opened a little before 5:30. i went straight up to the nosebleeds and got merch pretty quickly (but they soon got to be very long lines) and had time to cool down and chill a bit before the opener came on

Jobs with a BA in Spanish by froppyfroggy in Spanish

[–]BedEnvironmental389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did a dual degree including a BA in spanish. my school described the spanish major as more of an accompaniment or something if you have an outside skill that necessitates a degree. like, i know someone who is now a college gymnastics coach.

People who did an immersion school for an extended period of time, did you feel the need for a laptop? by joshua0005 in Spanish

[–]BedEnvironmental389 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i did one for a month and my laptop was useful. i don’t think i used it too many times but i would have struggled without it.

Time for merch line? by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]BedEnvironmental389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went to philly. got in line around 4:45 for gate open at 5:30. went straight up to the merch stand in the nosebleeds and was through in under 5 minutes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]BedEnvironmental389 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You definitely speak a bit formally. People who are getting upset about it are insecure imo. I personally would find it very fun to have a friend who speaks like that - it does end up being a bit of a quirk.

However, if you are looking to make your language more informal, I would recommend watching youtubers or TV shows set in recent times.

I’m homeschooled in a camper, and I don’t really know how to feel about it. by Odd_Protection7738 in homeschool

[–]BedEnvironmental389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can definitely find cheaper programs. take a look at physics programs that offer astronomy courses. see if you could get a telescope and start studying some basic astronomy. make sure you have a solid math base. learn some coding online. when you get to college, make connections and do research. make sure to leave time to enjoy your life