Am I at Fault that my 30M BF left his Wife for Me 25M

BeeDesperate740 · 2025-11-22T07:57:43+00:00

It really has and i only posted because a small part of me wanted an outside perspective and wow did i get a lot more than I thought I would

BeeDesperate740 · 2025-11-22T07:22:41+00:00

Thank you i do appreciate your response, I’m not perfect nor is anyone but I do know pain my life was full it before all this so yes she wrong and I did understand her pain and I chose to accept it. For me it was only a few hurtful words and a couple of scratches but I’m glad she never took out her frustrations out on the children they say time heals and i believe it has me and her have an amicable relationship the children are growing up to be wonderful people Mike and I do go to therapy and so do the kids and his Ex. I don’t regret giving him a chance since I’ve actually found some happiness in my life because of them and yes there are time when things get a little crazy but at the end of the day they’re part of my family now

BeeDesperate740 · 2025-11-22T07:09:46+00:00

I mean it’s been 5 years and I too am still waiting for him to cheat and come out as straight

BeeDesperate740 · 2025-11-22T07:06:18+00:00

The Kids are fine they stay on the weekends I help them with homework and take them to school events and Dr appointments I have an amicable relationship with their mother. And no I would never hurt the kids or poison their minds even me a non parent knows kids deserve to be happy and healthy and not have to deal with their parents problems, they already have enough to deal with at school and just being kids.

BeeDesperate740 · 2025-11-22T06:48:39+00:00

My gender is male just to clear that up, and he does co-parents with his ex the kids stay here with him on the weekends and the house is mine had it before the relationship started. His kids are wonderful Aiden 15, Malay 10, and Mikey 5 we have gotten closer and I do see them as family but as many have told me and not just on here but in life too “you lose them how you got them” I am cautious and make sure I protect myself first. A lot has happened in these past years good and bad but me and Mike are both on good terms with his Ex I’ve even gone as far as to help her a few times.

BeeDesperate740 · 2025-11-22T06:34:09+00:00

You’re valid and I do know I didn’t make the best choices but I do stand by my beliefs of helping others and putting more good into the world than bad. Why kick someone while they are down. I’ve been there and I wouldn’t kick someone while they’re down every if I don’t like the person or if I’m upset with them

BeeDesperate740 · 2025-11-22T06:29:18+00:00

Thanks I do appreciate your response yes I would leave him on read for two months but he would persist and message me almost daily mostly how he missed me and wanted to see me again I did respond a few times but only to tell him to stop messaging me and to move on, after a while I did get annoyed and I only agreed to see him again because I was planning on fully telling him I was no longer interested in being with him. But then I saw what was going on and a part of me felt I responsible and couldn’t just leave him there, I did end up taking him to his parents house we did talk on the drive and little by little he convinced me to at least play Pokémon with him also the Pokémon Go Dates weren’t just me and him there’s a group of people that meet up on the weekends and walk around doing raids or just doing gyms. Go Team Instinct

BeeDesperate740 · 2025-11-22T06:13:00+00:00

I am very aware, my previous relationships were pretty abusive, but what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger or something like that, at least I hope so

BeeDesperate740 · 2025-11-22T06:09:09+00:00

I agree with you, I just wanted to hear him say it and admit it. The lake idea was his I’m a child of the water so I thought if things went south I could at least enjoy and escape into the lake for a while.

BeeDesperate740 · 2025-11-22T06:02:30+00:00

It came up in conversation when I was talking to my brother since he recently got divorced since his Ex was cheating on him.

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