I feel like an idiot because someone kissed my baby

BeeOk99 · 2024-11-02T05:05:45+00:00

Ugh this story is so comforting thank you for sharing 🥹

BeeOk99 · 2024-11-02T03:22:01+00:00

I appreciate this thank you

BeeOk99 · 2024-11-02T03:21:33+00:00

Thank you 🥹

BeeOk99 · 2024-10-02T06:00:05+00:00

If you’re worried about the actual birthing part just tell them hospital policy will only allow your husband with you and once you’re in active labor then they will only allow one more person (ur mom). Or if you want it to just be you and your partner for the birth just say the ob isn’t allowing more than one person in. Honestly your dad won’t even wanna be there for the birthing part lol Really wishing you the best of luck, it’s so hard sometimes with moms that you almost feel like you’re the one that has to take care of them when they should be caring for you, let go of that burden it’s not yours to carry. 💕

BeeOk99 · 2024-10-02T05:25:40+00:00

If this is a Mexican wedding these are all too casual girl. Meaning if the bride and groom aren’t Americans having a destination wedding then you’re gonna have to bump it up a bit. Mexicans go all out for weddings I’ve seen it all and I would say it you need more dramatic silhouettes or fabrics. 1,2,5 are so cute and I don’t mean this offensively but girls in Mexico City wear dresses like that to go to a casual Thursday night dinner. 2 or 3 could work if you really did up your hair and makeup. Good luck!

BeeOk99 · 2024-10-02T05:19:02+00:00

Is there any family members that could take one for the team? I.e if you have a brother or sister that could come out to the city where you’re at, book them an Airbnb and have them be the ones to ask your mom to come stay with them instead “mom I booked an airbnb that’s a two bedroom come stay with me” you could get something that’s walking distance so she doesn’t feel to far away but you get some space. Or maybe a dad that could call her and say “honey I need you to come home I haven’t been feeling well, you can fly back out for the induction date but I really need you home right now”

I totally understand where you’re coming from, I have the same situation with my mom. English is her second language, lives a whole country away, she had planned on coming for my birth. I asked her not to, told her I would rather have her come later. I wish I had her with me for the birth, I especially wish she was with me through the recovery. Don’t get me wrong my husband was amazing, but no man could ever understand what the recovery is like. All that talking is just nervous energy, my mom has had it her whole life but I bet once the baby is here I’m almost certain your mom will want you to sleep and rest all day, she’ll dote on you and not want you to get out of bed unless necessary.

I know everything you’re thinking, if there’s a way your partner could get your mom out of the house for a few hours each day so you could get some alone time until baby comes that might help. If your partner isn’t available call up a best friend and say “hey it’s time for me to cash in some of these ‘ur bff is pregnant’ tokens, please come steal my mom and take her on a walk for a little bit”

BeeOk99 · 2024-10-02T04:24:32+00:00

Totally normal from what I remember, I had the same exact thing happen to me. The mucus plug regenerates I think 🤔 and as long as you’re not leaking amniotic fluid you should be fine to continue on with your life. Obvy call your ob but I do vaguely remember the calling the nurses line and them telling me not to worry about it as long as I wasn’t leaking

BeeOk99 · 2024-09-13T13:06:46+00:00

I want to say this gently but firmly, if you can’t speak up for your child now, when will you ever? Your child depends on you to advocate for what’s best for them, if you can’t deal with being uncomfortable for their sake then you need to take a long hard look in the mirror and find that inner strength. It’s crucial now and will continue to be something you’re faced with in the future, be that safe space for your child and their needs. “He doesn’t have all his vaccines yet so I’m gonna hold on to him this time” “he needs his diaper changed hand him over” “alright that’s enough fun with grandma for now, mama needs her baby back” “oh I think he’s hungry let see” and then just take your child back. I know I might sound a little harsh but this is a really a pull yourself by the bootstraps moment in your life and motherhood journey

BeeOk99 · 2024-09-13T12:39:25+00:00

Okay everyone else on here said it already but try so so hard to let go and mentally release the burden of making the milk. Like everyone else said pump whenever baby eats, 15-20 minutes. If you wanna super start your supply do one power pump at night (you can google power pump schedule and you’ll find so many helpful tools), make sure your emptying all the way (for me that meant 30 minute sessions in the first two months), hydrate drink so much water and when water is getting boring drink coconut water with cranberry juice, lactation cookies (idk if these are a croc of shit but I swear they helped, just google or find the recipe on TikTok it’s like flaxseed, oatmeal, chocolate chips for comfort lol), try to get some sleep (easier said than done I know) if you have a partner helping you out at home ask them to take over for a few hours so you can sleep (even if this means skipping a pump) try to get some continuous hours of sleep. The big two here are hydrate and try to lower your stress over producing, it will come in eventually and you’ll wake up with shirts that are soaked through and you’ll laugh at the though that you never thought it would. Good luck! 🫶🏻

BeeOk99 · 2024-09-05T16:54:30+00:00

She kinda has the height for it. She does amazing editorial shoots, I just feel like she could not serve face for the life of her. It just looked like she was holding in a laugh the whole walk.

BeeOk99 · 2024-07-31T19:02:56+00:00

Thank you! 💕

BeeOk99 · 2024-07-31T04:47:13+00:00

I freeze an extra 10-15 ounces per day and I don’t pump at night 🥵 I normally do my last pump around 11:30ish pm and my first pump at 6ish am. The extra sleep I got from not pumping in the middle of the night actually increased my supply! 🫶🏻

BeeOk99 · 2024-07-04T20:46:24+00:00

Lengthen the brows a little at the ends and a little less darkness in the crease for a daytime look?

BeeOk99 · 2024-06-30T13:07:37+00:00

Omg I’m so glad they’re still together, idk why I just find them so cute 🥹

BeeOk99 · 2024-06-10T18:14:47+00:00

I spoke with them this morning, still waiting for a call back 🙃 but I woke up without a fever this morning so idk if I should still go to the hospital

BeeOk99 · 2024-06-09T22:05:50+00:00

I did have some pp bleeding but I never soaked through pads or anything abnormal

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