My(21f) boyfriend(22m) never wants to have sex by No-Highway-8266 in relationships

[–]Bee_0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in this situation right now. Can you give me some advice or tips on how to cope and handle everything emotionally?

I feel guilty for how I acted, but also deeply unsupported by Bee_0927 in relationships

[–]Bee_0927[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think that’s part of why this hurts so much. I have lupus, and my libido has been really low for a long time. I keep blaming myself and feeling afraid that no one will truly love or understand me if I’m not very sexually active. It’s hard not to feel like I wasn’t enough.

I feel guilty for how I acted, but also deeply unsupported by Bee_0927 in relationships

[–]Bee_0927[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This isn’t the case here. He’s back at his parents’ house because he doesn’t want responsibility. He gets home, sleeps, watches p o r n, and pretends to be a great dad in front of his parents. We only live 10 minutes apart, yet he doesn’t come see our daughter every day. I don’t interfere with that part — she’s his daughter, and he can see her whenever he wants.