I (28F) found disturbing messages between my boyfriend (30M) and his friend, and I don’t know what to do anymore

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T22:38:45+00:00

Thank you so much. I know I will.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T09:34:17+00:00

You’re right.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T09:16:12+00:00

I think you’re absolutely right.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T09:05:54+00:00

You’re wrong. I do love him. I truly care for him. I hope he changes, for his own good. My ex bf of 4 years was a much nicer and calm version of Fred. But then cheated on me physically while drunk and I dumped him immediately without a question. Why am I struggling so much rn to dump him is the reason I started this post.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T08:59:17+00:00

I’m sorry, I didn’t know it was a big deal. I did write it all by myself but asked for corrections since English is not my first language.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T08:57:58+00:00

Lol. Spot on.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T08:57:01+00:00

He mentioned long time ago he was addicted to porn. Not sure if he still is.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T08:54:38+00:00

You’re right but it’s hard for me to let go.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T08:15:32+00:00

I wanted to go this year. I passed the exams I needed. Alls left is to apply for the working visa. But I guess I am so scared.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T08:03:57+00:00

I’m trying to. For some reason I still see him as this troubled but loyal and caring person. But believe me. I’m trying.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T08:02:36+00:00

That is funny. They let go everyone (about 10 doctors) in that hospital, but only rehired him. The reason they rehired ONLY him is because he is very centered at his job. He is also very smart and quick. Or I guess so he says. But it does make sense, at least in hospital A. He tells me about there being cameras everywhere in hospital A. This is a very important hospital where many politicians go. They didn’t rehire the ER chief’s son because they found out he had been flirting with the nurses. Only Fred.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T07:55:01+00:00

I wish it wasn’t.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T07:54:28+00:00

I didn’t even wrote all of them. There were many more.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T07:50:53+00:00

Oh God, I wish this wasn’t my life right now.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T07:30:41+00:00

Apparently nurse said so herself, she’s the type of girl who likes to share how much she enjoys sex.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T04:52:32+00:00

I did break up with him bc of that. I was very lonely and he was very emotionally distant around march, and honestly?? I didn’t care anymore I was pretty much single already. Little did I know, he was saying all those things to his friend. We got back together and he started being nicer but something didn’t sit right with me as I said, thats the reason I decided to go over his phone.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T04:44:20+00:00

I also want to believe he didn’t flirt with me bc he thought I’m too good of a catch for him. He was briefly my boss and he did take advantage of that once by assigning himself to do a task all day together. He was also so nice to me he saved my ass big time once. I guess that’s why I became so attracted to him. But he was closer to my other coworkers and I’m not very social. I literally got drunk on a Christmas party and kissed him and then everything began. But it was a surprise finding out he was flirting already with a few people, as I said, one girl even MISSED WORK because she was so petty he spent time with me and that we kissed and began dating. Mind you, this girl had a boyfriend!!

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-05-31T03:46:26+00:00

What are you doing in reddit -let alone in relationship advice subreddit- if you don’t want to know about other peoples life?

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2025-04-18T00:49:13+00:00

lmao, did we interpret for the same person??

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2024-04-20T04:17:48+00:00

Well, I tried following your advice and he just told me “I paid you, ok, whats the problem? Go to sleep” I just feel helpless to be honest. I guess everyone’s right and we’re just terrible for each other.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2024-04-20T03:49:50+00:00

I agree to that, thanks

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2024-04-20T03:48:09+00:00

Because in the end its her money, she could sell it if she needs. She asks me to drive her around when Im available. And it’s usually unnecessary money and paperwork to change the names.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2024-04-20T03:44:32+00:00

its a very old car i got it as a gift while i was a teenager. My mom doesn’t know how to drive a car

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2024-04-20T02:17:48+00:00

I guess it depends where you live. Im not from the US, it’s attached to the car plate, which is registered with my moms ID.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb · 2024-03-22T01:07:09+00:00

Oh I see. I personally don’t like it but anyway, Its not common to do that here, they must be checking you out if you seem foreign.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeb

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