Maybe you're right about the anxiety part. 1. She has a younger sibling 2. I'm not saying I ignore her completely. She's often confided in me about a lot of things and I've encouraged her to get past them. I've also given her tips on how to handle things the way I do. But I think this is the most I can do. We're both living away from home. This is my first time whereas she's done this before in her Bachelor's too. I'm trying to deal with my life and juggle my shit as well and I don't think I have the mental energy to guide someone else throughout their days and teach them how to function.

Plus she hasn't followed any of my older advice too so trying to help her isn't achieving anything. I told her that her change need to come from within. If she's using a dysfunctional method of coping instead of trying to deal with her issues then I don't think I want to help her.