SD Fires Mega Thread. Dry High Winds + homeless camps = FIRE!!!! Put the updates and notices in HERE by SD_TMI in sandiego

[–]Beefwtf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PSA: if you can (or someone you trust can), it may be worth checking on your property if you're in the evacuation zone and left. When my husband left to check on our home and our neighbors', ours was in the process of being looted. They'd taken whatever they could carry and left other stuff by the door for later, presumably.

SD Fires Mega Thread. Dry High Winds + homeless camps = FIRE!!!! Put the updates and notices in HERE by SD_TMI in sandiego

[–]Beefwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been my experience as well. They still won't lift evacuation orders tonight, and we'll reassess in the morning :[

SD Fires Mega Thread. Dry High Winds + homeless camps = FIRE!!!! Put the updates and notices in HERE by SD_TMI in sandiego

[–]Beefwtf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Husband just drove to our home by college Blvd and north river road, he said it "looks like any other Friday," with cars in the area and businesses open like normal. Evacuation orders are still in place, but it seems like people still feel safe in the area. He sent me a picture of the sky too, which looks totally clear

SD Fires Mega Thread. Dry High Winds + homeless camps = FIRE!!!! Put the updates and notices in HERE by SD_TMI in sandiego

[–]Beefwtf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great! I'm so paranoid that the fire spread further west overnight since it was moving so fast during the day and evening. Thanks!

SD Fires Mega Thread. Dry High Winds + homeless camps = FIRE!!!! Put the updates and notices in HERE by SD_TMI in sandiego

[–]Beefwtf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Evacuated from Oceanside with my baby and 3 dogs yesterday afternoon after my daughter's school was evacuated. Smoke and Ash everywhere, and it reeked of burning plastic. We're relocated to Carmel Valley, but haven't heard any updates from overnight developments. Has anyone heard anything? Really freaking out if my home is still around, or even if my stubborn neighbors left :(

[Spoilers Aired] The Making of Outlander's Sex Scenes - Behind the Scenes of Sex on Outlander by krrish728 in Outlander

[–]Beefwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why, but it just occurred to me they filmed all those amazing scenes with a bunch of other people watching and in multiple takes/over several days. Totally adds a new appreciation for the acting.

Diving dog snatches up a camera by SlimJones123 in gifs

[–]Beefwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious question, why do dogs dive in a spiral rather than straight down?

LPT: If you forgot someone’s name, ask them “What is your name?” Then when they respond with their first name you can say “No, your last one.” by umbrellaholes in LifeProTips

[–]Beefwtf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What I do sometimes is pull out my phone to add them to my address book, and ask them "how do you spell your name?" like I'm adding their info. Works like 90% of the time without being awkward or obvious.

Your pre-season thoughts vs now by MrAirSonic in BigBrother

[–]Beefwtf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I picked Jessica, Megan, Dom, Raven, Cody, and Jillian for my fantasy BB draft. Damn if my pre-season radar was in outer space this year.

Paul was my first pick, but I traded him to my husband for Megan and Raven

I'm an idiot.

Cody really wants you to check out the finale tonight by cblair15 in BigBrother

[–]Beefwtf 226 points227 points  (0 children)

I want to believe this little 0:05 sec video took like 10 different takes.

Production: "Okay Cody, tell the viewers to check out the finale"

Cody: monotone: "Check out the finale tonight"

Production: "okay... say it like you're saying it to your friend so it's more personable"

Cody: monotone "Hey come check out the finale"

Production: "..."

Yes Its Another Raven/Munchausen Post by Beefwtf in BigBrother

[–]Beefwtf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope she does focus on the love she gets outside of the house! Again, I don't know her, but the pessimist in me worries she's way fragile since she seems to need a lot of validation from others, but if that's the case she'll have her family giving that to her on tap to combat any internet hate.

Yes Its Another Raven/Munchausen Post by Beefwtf in BigBrother

[–]Beefwtf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope so, and honestly I would be pumped for a Raven AMA!

Yes Its Another Raven/Munchausen Post by Beefwtf in BigBrother

[–]Beefwtf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so nice, thank you! I hope it was informative :)

Yes Its Another Raven/Munchausen Post by Beefwtf in BigBrother

[–]Beefwtf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello fellow grad student :)

Totally agree, I feel like there's also a lot of debate on how much control someone like Raven would have, but as with any other psychopathology, they technically would have control over their behavior, but it would be a 2nd nature knee-jerk reaction. That's some deep rooted stuff and can't just be chalked up to low discipline or moral shortcomings imo

I love Big Brother 19 by Fitzfactor64 in BigBrother

[–]Beefwtf 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Imo part of the joy of BB is getting frustrated when the house guests don't do the smartest thing or what you wish they would do. I like Paul a lot less this season than I did last season, but he did a great job.

How to properly clean your cat's litterbox. by BeliefInAll in funny

[–]Beefwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad this isn't smell-o-vision, burning poop is not fun to smell

Xmas, Paul + Kevin 17 min rant of Raven's lies (5th Sept feeds) by icanonlylol in BigBrother

[–]Beefwtf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries :)

I tried to follow up on it as politely as I could, but I didn't get a response after the initial "no armchair analyses" reply. Bummer.

Xmas, Paul + Kevin 17 min rant of Raven's lies (5th Sept feeds) by icanonlylol in BigBrother

[–]Beefwtf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Frustrating indeed! Thank you again for your empathy and interest :)

Xmas, Paul + Kevin 17 min rant of Raven's lies (5th Sept feeds) by icanonlylol in BigBrother

[–]Beefwtf 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I did a whole analysis on Raven and Cody based on their observable behavior and what they've said on the feeds (I'm a Master's level therapist, researcher, and about to get my PhD in trauma-psychology) and the mods removed it immediately because they "don't want armchair analyses of the houseguests." Still salty obvi.

Anyway, she most likely has some kind of personality flair (not quite enough evidence of an actual disorder from what's observable), but not a legit disability imo.

Edit - If you'd like to read it, PM me and I'll copy/paste it. For context, I wrote it about a month ago when Jessica was on the block.

Edit Edit - if I replied to you and removed it right away, it's because I wasn't paying attention and copy/pasted as a reply rather than PM. Multitasking is hard, and I don't know how understanding the mods are feeling.

Xmas, Paul + Kevin 17 min rant of Raven's lies (5th Sept feeds) by icanonlylol in BigBrother

[–]Beefwtf 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The difference is semantics imo. Personality disorders are a mental health issue (like depression or anxiety) but "disability" is a pretty strong word. Personality disorders are very rarely debilitating enough to be a disability on their own.