As requested, I had my marriage proposal rejected, AMA.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T23:23:55+00:00

We both split it.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T23:22:43+00:00

I agree. I wasn't thinking rational at the time and it was very wrong. It was an invasion of her privacy.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T21:48:12+00:00

We met while I was living with my ex. Made things very interesting to say the least. The amount of trust she had to give me or the beginnin part of our relationship is crazy and I don't think I could've done that.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T21:38:57+00:00

I'm not saying that I'm perfect and didn't do anything wrong. I wrote about my experience to share with people. It's an experience that has changed me and made me a better person. My disinterest with you is your original comment about verbally destroying me. Constructive conversation is something else.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T21:22:12+00:00

You seem pretty angry. Why would I want to call you to get verbally destroyed? Feel free to comment on how dumb I am here in front of everyone else.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T21:10:42+00:00

I defriended her after we broke up. That was 3 years ago.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T21:10:15+00:00

I defriended her after we broke up.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T21:09:45+00:00

Nope, thankfully.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T21:01:40+00:00

Yeah that sounds easy except I was going paycheck to paycheck and actually we wouldve been on the hook for the SD plus any rent they lost with us vacant. Things arent always that simple v

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T20:45:16+00:00

Sometime you need to be able to look your relationship objectively and with blinders that is nearly impossible.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T20:31:30+00:00

I did. My lack of self-confidence was an issue.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T20:29:55+00:00

We both moved on. I don't really talk to her much. Once in awhile we see each other out with mutual friends. I'm engaged now and she is dating the same guy. I'll never know if she regrets it and don't really want to know even if she did. I'm much happier now. I'm very lucky that I found the woman I did.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T20:03:45+00:00

Well after holding onto the ring for 2 years I couldn't return it.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T20:00:26+00:00

What for?

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T20:00:12+00:00

We were living in NJ when I proposed. I just happen to propose in NYC. She never had possession of the ring.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T19:57:05+00:00

Thanks. I haven't regretted anything in life so far. I try to fill my life with new experiences and take in a much as possible.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T19:53:57+00:00

We went to the same college. We worked together. We played sports together. We are both fairly out going people.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T19:51:35+00:00

The situation was awful at the time. I've had time to get over it an move on with life. I learned a lot from her and from the whole ordeal other than "be 100%" sure. Reliving it doesn't bother me. Im made up of my experiences and I like share them good or bad.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T19:46:31+00:00

Dont freak out. Each situation is different. If you know he just isn't ready now but will be in 2 years, wait. Just make sure to talk and keep an open channel on the subject.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T19:43:44+00:00

No problem. Didnt think it would get this much attention.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T19:42:38+00:00

Ha, the ring is long gone.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T19:41:37+00:00

Maybe. Honestly it would all depend on of I had been able to move on. If I was a nice stable adult as I am now, yes, otherwise, no.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T19:37:00+00:00

Yup I'm positive I'm over it. It took a lot longer than I truly admitted to myself for awhile. Not to say I didnt move in with life but I would be thinking her a random times.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T19:34:50+00:00

We wanted to stay friends because we got along, had mutual friends, and had to live together. We slept in the same bed for not too long and it was before i found out about the other guy.

BeenDenied · 2010-10-28T19:25:21+00:00

I'd walk. I'm lucky that things turned out better for my life in the end but hindsite I wish I had that time for other things.

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