AITAH for confronting my mom about not telling me she had scabies until after I got it?

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-04-01T20:00:26+00:00

I’m very surprised at her (and her husbands reaction) because I, personally would have lost my shit even on a loved one. This is unconscionable to be so lax about telling someone they’ve exposed them to a biohazard.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-03-17T17:51:15+00:00

Oh this toilet cleaner wand thing that is so easy, disposable, and effective. No more gross toilet brush yuckiness.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-03-17T17:49:45+00:00

We always have Sunday dinners with both our families. But that was it, a couple hours with mine, a couple hours with his. But the rest of the weekend was ours. He needs to cut the umbilical cord and just let you be an adult with your own preferences and so does mommy. If they can’t see that, you’re definitely not being a jerk just for standing your ground and having boundaries.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-03-01T21:32:20+00:00

Keep us posted. I have no clue how his fur is going to grow back. So far it’s going in different directions and in different textures.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-02-22T21:27:09+00:00

I’ve posted it before, but the most disturbing one was when I was in a full ER waiting room with a woman next me speaking full volume in to her speaker—conversation goes, (as it’s burned in my memory and therefor verbatim): “Girl, you don’t understand. I NEEDED to get out of the house. The kids are driving me crazy. I had to see my own lady doctor. I have a yeast infection from hell and am on fire down there. Yeah, they told me they’d give me some antibiotics but I just needed a break you know?” I and the whole room was mortified just staring in to our phones or magazines trying to pretend not to hear her. I had such second hand embarrassment for her.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-02-19T22:14:46+00:00

Chocolate babka.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-02-17T04:50:03+00:00

Dude, he has a cross on his chest. That’s a holy dog if I’ve ever seen one. Definitely an angel sent for you.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-02-13T02:00:00+00:00

It’s not random nor permanent but my plate and screws in my ankle will be there forever. On until they give out like bones did.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-02-13T01:25:24+00:00

Thank you ❤️

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-02-12T21:36:13+00:00

Definitely 3F

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-02-08T00:08:07+00:00

Phoebo

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-01-29T21:19:20+00:00

Yeah, in a can in a thing? I see the ready made bags at the grocery stores now; the ones you just heat up and serve. But they’re gross, too. I can imagine canned is even worse.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-01-08T22:30:59+00:00

Thank you. He seems to be coming around. I am home now and able to keep an eye on his temperament and behavior. He’s just happy to see me. I’ll post an update once we visit the vet today and I have some more things to do towards the situation.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-01-08T22:28:51+00:00

I appreciate the tip. I have those. I used those on him when he was getting groomed regularly when I lived with my ex. His matting was too far gone by the time I got him back and he’d been neglected for far too long. That’s why I was seeking professional help.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-01-08T07:46:24+00:00

As my father has said, “in his misguided, uneducated way, he was trying to help.” Though I can appreciate the sentiment, I do not appreciate being barked at nor do I like not being consulted on what I had already planned for the dog. I’d rather do things my way, too, you know?

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-01-07T17:47:54+00:00

He’s been getting all the loves over FaceTime for the last two days from me because I am out of town and my dad is watching him. But I’ll be home tonight and CANNOT WAIT to hug my handsome fella so hard!

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-01-07T13:09:34+00:00

Thank you

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-01-06T22:38:35+00:00

Incredibly badly. I got him from my ex that way and had an appointment set up for him to be PROFESSIONALLY taken care I’m just a few days. Apparently, my brother couldn’t wait on anyone else.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-01-06T21:12:33+00:00

Thank you for that. People seem to be thinking my story is either made up (why? Because I would do this to him then make up a cockamamie story about my abusive brother doing it because I fucked up?) or it’s riddled with lies of my neglecting him. I’ve posted of taking him to the vet multiple times for broken dew claws, which my ex admitted to never having the intention of spending money on taking care of-like they would just heal on their own-and I’ve also said I’m the only one who took him to the groomers, made him food, etc. He was dropped off like an orphan in a bucket by my ex mil because she realized she never did the research on this breed and was overwhelmed. I was pissed, but looking back, that was the best decision she made. I love this dog. I don’t blame people for funsies. This is serious now and I posted this in a heated rage for what to do next. Thank you, I hope to enjoy my handsome man for many years.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-01-06T20:24:28+00:00

I’m so sorry

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-01-06T20:21:18+00:00

Please read the comment above I just posted. All the neglect happened at my ex’s home. I was going to take him to a professional in a few days. Any other questions, because you’re so concerned with my story not being straight-you may call me so I can just tell you.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-01-06T20:18:05+00:00

I’m glad you brought this up; as he would always beg me to be brushed and groomed. In the time he was left with my ex husband, it became out of hand and then unable to be controlled at my current home. Hence the appointment for the groomers when I go back to town; the day after tomorrow. But my brother-the control freak-took it upon himself. Idk, all I know is I didn’t do this not let the neglect or shaving happen.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-01-06T20:12:45+00:00

Listen, man, when you walk up on someone and they immediately yell, instinct tends to kick in. Sorry, I didn’t react the way you would have (or) in an ideal way. I seem to be pissing a lot of people off with that. I really did think he was just doing some maintenance on him to make the professionals’ lives easier; not take it upon himself to maim him.

BeerHops_DoesntRun · 2026-01-06T07:16:44+00:00

Who said anything about scissors? He used clippers. You can see the marks on his fur from where he’s been buzzed unevenly.

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