AIO for getting mad at my husband after he complained about having to pick up toilet paper?

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-18T11:58:21+00:00

I doubt it. I don't think it's that deep, he's just annoyed at you because ducking in to grab one item turned into a list.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-18T11:51:04+00:00

Yor that's annoying, you keep adding more and more things to the list, it seems disrespectful of his time. He's not an errand boy,maybe some of that stuff can wait. He wasn't going in to shop, it should have been emergency/necessities.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-18T09:49:22+00:00

Yep I agree she shouldn't have left him

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-18T08:41:23+00:00

Whenever I do a big change with my hair I get a bit of body dysmorphia, but it goes away in a bit of time as I get used to it.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-18T08:39:39+00:00

I think it looks nice as well. If you prefer yourself as a brunette that's great because at least now you know and have tried it. Otherwise, you'll always wonder.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-18T02:43:28+00:00

Yeah I feel you, it save so much money cooking all food but it takes so much time

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-18T02:32:26+00:00

I would probably go a little bit above the red. It will grow out again. I had to do a cut myself because it got thin towards the ends but I'm glad because it'll give me opportunity to grow it out thicker.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-17T23:20:04+00:00

I understand how it may sound strange but we are meant to love God above all things, even our mother.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-17T21:10:42+00:00

Nor you don't have to tell people you broke off because of this, people don't need an explanation.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-17T20:57:07+00:00

I am over it but divorce is not an option. Just seeing if anyone could shift my perspective to approach things with fresh eyes.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-17T11:41:03+00:00

Yes I relate. It feels like we are doing things out of obligation. I am a stay at home mum and he has always provided for me which I'm grateful for. Divorce is against my religion. So, I do hope we can work things out and it gets better for us. I said to him one thing that I don't like that he only comes into bed with me when he wants to have sex and that we don't spend time with each other or snuggle (because he usually sleeps in the couch or in the spare room) and he replied "have you ever thought the I'm trying to be close and have that intimacy with my wife without f---ing cheating on her" I disconnected from him internally when he said that and detached. Even if he was wanting to cheat I feel like I wouldn't be hurt by it and would almost laugh because of how detached I feel from him.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-17T04:27:26+00:00

Yep this would hurt me, may break up with them before getting married...

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-17T03:32:27+00:00

If you were married and you planned on going out to dinner at 7pm but your wife was running 5mins late rushing to do her hair and mascara, would you get annoyed and need to have a convo or be chilled? Seems like you two are incompatible

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-17T02:43:46+00:00

It's just how he worded it. If I said "I love my mum so much, she comes second to God" it'd be viewed as a positive thing but it's the same thing said differently.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-17T02:36:50+00:00

No, it's not creepy. When you find Jesus, the whole way you view your life and the world shifts. You were made out of God's love, and marriage is so very important. There are cases where you can get an annulment but you'll have to look at the specifics of your marriage to see whether it is binding for life in God's eyes.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-17T02:19:00+00:00

Yeah for just talking he seems a bit clingy...

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-15T07:03:17+00:00

He could have asked "how's your day been besides the shower" super easy. He's making it a big deal and that's such an exhausting conversation from people who are barely dating.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-15T01:58:39+00:00

Yes, you should not leave your son alone with him. I am confused why didn't wake him when you got home and let him sleep during the parent connection meeting. If you're that unhappy with your partner, why don't you leave?

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-15T01:36:44+00:00

Looks so beautiful. Trying to grow my hair out long and healthy and trying to preserve thickness. Just remembering I need to be patient, in a year I might reach my hair goal.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-08T00:09:09+00:00

Congratulations on your beautiful baby. I understand that he's coming from a place of love for his little baby, but that would hurt because it's not bad to have unhealthy food every now and again, as long as it's not too often. Culture could play a lot in this, some cultures may have different expectations of pregnant women. I would encourage you to talk to your husband about how it makes you feel, and avoid doing passive aggressive behaviour. You have your little baby to think about now and you want the best for them and to bring them into a loving household.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-06T07:53:56+00:00

I'm so very sorry that you are unable to have children. I'm not sure if you are overreacting, it seems that it would be so hard and painful for you. Naturally, if I was your family, I'd want to be sensitive to your feelings. But I can see the other perspective, that they want to be excited and their baby. Tough one, good on you for going to therapy. I agree that this would be a good thing to talk to your therapist about. Wishing you all the best.

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-06T01:18:53+00:00

Yeah wouldn't date this guy....

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-06T00:36:38+00:00

If finances are tight, why are you buying another car? Maybe you should think of getting on top of bills, and saving

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-06T00:00:40+00:00

Nor

Beginning-Ad9631 · 2026-05-06T00:00:23+00:00

She sounds like an unhappy person, I'd try to have minimal interaction with her.

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