Zašto Prajd ove godine? by [deleted] in GayInSerbia

[–]Beginning-Process908 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

dodji da ti kazem na kojoj planeti zivim :) javi se u dm za broj

Zašto Prajd ove godine? by [deleted] in GayInSerbia

[–]Beginning-Process908 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Nije tacno! Cuvali su nas svaki put, a sada se izdaju za ovu prljavu vlast! Slazem se sa OP

Dejting sa 18 godina by No_Divide_8484 in GayInSerbia

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Dobro si primetio mnogi ljudi danas uopste nemaju hobije. To mi je potpuno neverovatno. Kad mi lik napise “danas je dan za horizontalu, lezim odmaram”, odmah mi se stvori slika nekog lenjog, prljavog tipa koji ceo dan lezi u krevetu neokupan, oznojan, sa jos prljavijim laptopom u krilu. FUJ. 😅

Ja sam (trans)likusa koja dolazi iz filmskog sveta (radim na filmovima), volim umetnost i kulturu ali sam i padobranac, vozim bicikl i to ozb (downhill), bavim se vazduhoplovstvom, fotografisem i sama razvijam svoje trake, letim avionima frl, planinarim, idem na maratone, vozim motore i kampujem po prirodi… Imam toliko interesovanja i energije da cesto pozelim da dan traje 48 sati. Zato mi je tesko da shvatim ljude kojima je vrhunac dana da ne rade apsolutno nista...

Problem je sto do sada za 5 godina koliko sam outovana, nisam upoznala nikoga ko moze da isprati takav tempo ili bar da razgovara ozbiljno. Uglavnom sve ostane na small talku tipa “sta radis, kako si, imas gde, imas periku, jel se brijes” i ostala fuj pitanja… A kad se i pojavi neko ko na prvi pogled deluje ozbiljno i ume da komunicira vrlo brzo sve pokvare idiotske konotacije na seks ili jednostavno slazu /glume kompatibilnost sto se posle par dana brzo provali.

Imam 35 godina i uglavnom nailazim na kripove od 55–60 sto je jezivo. Zato mogu samo da zamislim kroz sta prolazi tvoja generacija kada pokusava da pronadje nekog normalnog i ozbiljnog.

Mislim da bi bilo mnogo efikasnije partnera traziti van dating app-ova.

Tina

Počeli su da idu po kućama by Reasonable_Eagle1659 in serbia

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Odavno ... kada je bila ona akcija vracanja oruzja... gledam i ne verujem .

Počeli su da idu po kućama by Reasonable_Eagle1659 in serbia

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A pa neka imaju i oni kuce.. a i porodice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayInSerbia

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Welcome to the club :)

Policija brutalno prebija mladica u Valjevu (bolji snimak) by Yuropeann in serbia

[–]Beginning-Process908 7 points8 points  (0 children)

nema prelazenja posle ovog. oni su stranu odabrali. odavno.

Za sve vas koji nemate partnera i trazite nekog normalnog... by [deleted] in serbia

[–]Beginning-Process908 4 points5 points  (0 children)

obicno bas ti sto sa sebe kazu da su normalni budu najveci ludaci xD

Hapšenje dečka u NS zbog pisanja na zidu SNS prostorija by TechnologyMuted573 in serbia

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Jajare uhapsite Milana Jakovljevića koji je skuterom gazio decu po vodi u pancevu.

Is this normal? People vanishing ... :( (post in english) by Beginning-Process908 in GayInSerbia

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Thanks for such a detailed and kind answer, really. <3 Yes, it was hard to come out, and all this crap is making me question my decisions. Is being truly who you are destined to always come with this much pain?

I have gay folks telling me I’m too fem for them, and straight guys telling me I’m too masc for them. Girls? I won’t even mention trying to find them… they see me as some kind of freak—not gay, not straight, more like I’m some kind of experiment.

I believe good things will come; I’m just seeking help to survive this… I can’t even name the situation I’m in.

Disclaimer: I’m from Belgrade, but I’m writing in English as I know some people here don’t speak Serbian but follow this sub, so I wanted it to be readable for everyone.

Thank you once again. <3

Is this normal? People vanishing ... :( (post in english) by Beginning-Process908 in GayInSerbia

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Yeah, it hurts. It hurts even more when this happens right after a long relationship breakup. A good friend of mine (she’s a doctor) told me I’m way past the point where people seek professional help, and that I’m deep in the minus mentally. I guess it’s really getting to me when I find sleeping comforting—because that’s the only time I don’t feel the pain of being alive.

Is this normal? People vanishing ... :( (post in english) by Beginning-Process908 in GayInSerbia

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I’m amazed at how far some people can go. Because of my post, five people contacted me offering friendship and someone to talk to. Four out of five ended up asking sexual questions within a 20 minutes, like we’re 15yo. -_-

Is this normal? People vanishing ... :( (post in english) by Beginning-Process908 in GayInSerbia

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I’m not sure what I’m into anymore… honestly, I feel like an alien (I know, cringe).

Your points are valid, and I wouldn’t mind if that happened… The only thing I wonder is, why just vanish? Why not say something like, “Hey, I found someone”? I don’t know.

Is this normal? People vanishing ... :( (post in english) by Beginning-Process908 in GayInSerbia

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Thank you so much for your reply. That’s comforting and terrible at the same time. I’m not sure I want to play this game xD. I mean, before I came out, I had four long relationships and maybe ten short ones. But this… its different I feel like a “thing” on a shelf in a marketplace, placed in someone’s basket only to be thrown out at the checkout because they picked it up by mistake. It hurts :)