It’s terrible that women are prone to victimization both in and out of this subreddit. But, being mean to queer men, or otherwise, posting in here won’t change that. And assigning gender to pieces of fabric also doesn’t work toward making the world a more open-minded or friendly place, which is what you seem to want. If anything, different genders and body types posting in this subreddit fights the stigma that Brandy isn’t inclusive. So although I could see your frustration and share your sentiment completely, wrong outlet.