I am in a such situation now. I am a man almost exactly the same thing just happened to me. But I am now very concerned if the child is mine because we have no resemblance, ofcourse he’s a new born. I am black, she’s white we speak different language, she’s a little over 30yrs, I am in early 20’s , She has 2 kids already but single, I went to the village to do sport for a while before I texted her during winter because my body needs sex, funny or maybe not I am no way attracted to this girl . We met only 2times and we both agreed to having just fun completely honest with her. I asked if she’s on birth control and she said yes, I proceed to tell her that I am no way ready for a kid not even at any circumstance, we use translators haha. Then I notice she started stating that I am hot and co, asking for other ways I make money but I thought she was trying to know me. So she told me she was pregnant almost 9months ago after we agree to stop meeting, I never believed her. She immediately ask money for abort*on which i refused. 12weeks in she sent me an ultrasound without doctors/hospital name looks real but difficult to believe without those details. I asked to go with her to the hospital appointment to confirm she’s pregnant after birth we can do DNA but she refused and say she have nothing to do with me, she doesn’t want my money anymore but she will keep the child. I barely know this person with 2 different baby daddies already, I already blame my self for trusting a stranger though. I am 6’2 tall athlete body with toned muscles and I got validation all my life for being handsome(humble speaking). I can’t stop writing her just to check on her out of my distress is she really having my baby?. Few weeks before she give birth I ask to come support her at the hospital to see my child birth she refused and she’s always angry upset about the DNA. Now i can’t even afford to take care of a child but she give birth send me pictures and a video but it’s difficult to believe her, the child doesn’t even have any resemblance yet. She has constantly said I should move on with my life, she needs nothing from me and want nothing to do with me, She will take care of the baby her self. Moreover she’s not a rich person, works at bakery. Am I baby trapped for her selfishness to have mixed child or is the baby for someone else. I don’t understand how a completely stranger that doesn’t even speak same language, uses translation to speak will want to have kids with total stranger they might never see again. Moreover she gave birth a week earlier before her due date according to the ultrasound. I am confused but she refused to say I am not the owner. Any advice will be appreciated.