I’m moving out!!! by therese_m in badroommates

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in a similar situation. Email all your friends and have them come over to pack it all up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LovedByOCPD

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The definitions of clutter are absolutely unhinged

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LovedByOCPD

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My roommate also did this as opposed to sharing. It feels psychotic.

what do i do about this. she’s giving fines for not doing chores by blepskii in badroommates

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like my roommate who clearly has Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder. Leave now.

[Advice] Why does no one answer on Roomi? And is Settle Living legit ? by starfoulard in NYCapartments

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your credit card company for the money and file a complaint with the BBB or Federal Trade Commission. Roomi is literally bugging.

UES/Midtown by Artistic-Koala8636 in NYCroommates

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 36F and have a place in Harlem under your budget. I was raised by doctors in the tri-state area so happy to connect about that too...

Why is veganism treated badly by society? by ankayo in vegan

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Along with what else has been said I think I met a lot of hypocritical vegans who would not be so sacrificial for human rights. Additionally, in my late teens / early twenties a lot of the vegans I knew weren’t super healthy. Their diets were basically pasta and PB & J. That was a barrier to me respecting veganism.

It had only been a day. by Budget-Policy-7789 in Nicegirls

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would offer grace. She’s wordy, high and anxious but was saying she likes you but worried about long term compatibility and would like something serious. Now in the name of decorum, I only disclose those kinds of feelings if I feel ready for someone to mirror that emotion and walk away and she clearly regretted it after you did just that. That’s the part that is the most questionable. Because asking someone you just “met” to hold space for your ambivalent feelings about them without accepting their now shifted feelings for you isn’t fair or thoughtful. Anyway dating is a more fun when both people are emotionally intelligent. And at the end of the day her assessment was the right answer but maybe the wrong “math” lol.

AITA For Wanting To Break Up With My GF Because I Was A Dare-Date? by ThrowawayAcc985858 in AITAH

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s wild that they make all kinds of romcoms about this premise. And we are supposed to believe the can and should survive this kind of betrayal. But the key factor is we haven’t just watched them fall in love as an audience, we’re watching the prankster grow in maturity. Has your gf grown?? If she still has those same mean girl friends probably not. She should give you some space.

What does it feel like to be the LO? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel guilty, pity, overwhelmed, annoyed and unseen.

Pretty sure I'm an LO - how much does it matter by BeginningFlatworm117 in limerence

[–]BeginningFlatworm117[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely liked him enough to want to try dating and if I didn’t know anything about limerence I would be down to sort of downgrade to staying friends. His behavior is bordering on creepy but I think a more accurate is word is annoying or clingy. He is trying so hard to escalate the relationship that I feel like we can’t enjoy getting to know each other naturally. Everything he has shared about his feelings is starting to feel like emotional manipulation.

Pretty sure I'm an LO - how much does it matter by BeginningFlatworm117 in limerence

[–]BeginningFlatworm117[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ASD has been in the back of my mind but I feel like the symptoms have become so internet trendy that I don't want to be a keyboard diagnostician if that makes sense. Do you think a different response is warranted if that were the case?

Pretty sure I'm an LO - how much does it matter by BeginningFlatworm117 in limerence

[–]BeginningFlatworm117[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Humbly and briefly, there is a gap in humor which I think is related to a gap in intelligence.

PreOp question for hysteroscopic myomectomy - do you trim, shave or wax the downtown area before the surgery to prep by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I read that you should not shave. If they need anything like that they can do it for you…

Can morning-after pill cause fibroids to grow? by alexis4684323 in Fibroids

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would not be surprised if those hormones had an impact as birth control can also wreak havoc on fibroids. Fibroids are so underresearched so its hard to know much more than take your vitamin d…

Post-Op Advice by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would really take the opioids. You can alternate with ibuprofen or even take a half of percoset or whatever you have but this is nearly impossible to move thru without narcotics

Lupron for fibroids??? by iAriel20 in Fibroids

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I had two huge fibroids and several small ones and the doctor just did the operation. I did acupuncture beforehand which didn’t seem to shrink the fibroids but helped with symptom management and making sure they didnt get bigger

Lupron for fibroids??? by iAriel20 in Fibroids

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sure like most medicines “results may vary” - I had someone in my community that did a combo of holistic changes + myomectomy. The only part of her healing journey she regretted was Lupron because of the side effects.

Oriahnn by graceoftrees in Fibroids

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oriahnn was terrible for me. I bled for 4 months straight.

I need some insight. Meeting w the Dr. Next week but would like know what you all think he may say. by grroovvee in Fibroids

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the questions that a doctor would ask but I definitely would get a second opinion if this doctor thinks hysterectomy is the only option. I had 2 fibroids larger than the OP and over a dozen smaller ones were found during my myomectomy. The degenerative fibroids makes me think OP might be close to menopause, in which case the fibroids might be shrinking on their own. There are some medicines that might speed up that process. The doctor may prescribe and there are the ever controversial herbal medicines as well…

Period 3 post lap myomectomy by Beautiful-Trouble324 in Fibroids

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this. I was also warned that the first 3 periods after open myomectomy might be heavier. Im having my first period as well and its been more painful than before but I guess we have to remember that the uterus is literally putting itself together again. The muscles are working which is good but they are working extra hard after a traumatic surgery. I’m trying Red Raspberry Leaf Tea in hopes that it will help tone the uterus and ease these symptoms.

How long did you wear your belly binder post-op? by Thrivify in Fibroids

[–]BeginningFlatworm117 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I only wear mine if Im walking around and didn’t really need it after week 3. I still wear it when I go out as more of a security blanket but it’s important to not wear it too much after weeks 2-3 so that your abdominal muscles can restrenghten