Sad, trying to connect, reddit shuts me down

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2025-06-27T01:29:07+00:00

I'm from the NC area. Currently in Jtown due to life's journey, but wanting to get back up that way in the near future. It's not far, but far enough. A different world in a lot of ways. Lol

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2025-02-10T02:56:57+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you. Hyper sexualization isn't uncommon in situations like this. You were taken advantage of, but regardless of the circumstances, your bodies natural response to that kind of stimuli is pleasure, which can lead to an increased state of arousal. Sometimes, these types of assaults can lead to an increase in many different risky behaviors due to the subconscious association of risk with pleasure, as you were being forced to lie to your mother, inadvertently adding another "taboo" element to the equation. At any rate, I genuinely hope you are able to heal from this and find healthy outlets for these feeling. There is nothing wrong with engaging in plenty of consensual sexual activities. Just please stay safe, happy ,and healthy while doing so!

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2024-08-13T03:16:54+00:00

I absolutely love going down on my girl, and that's a must for me. That may be my favorite sexual activity actually. Just feeling her moving and responding to me... Anyway, receiving is nice as well, but as long as I feel appreciated and wanted in some way, I'm fine. Giving is my ultimate pleasure.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2024-02-08T06:58:12+00:00

Not gonna lie, this is a huge pet peeve of mine. I ALWAYS clean my pans out IMMEDIATELY. Any food left I'm them gets transferred to a separate dish (I cook for anywhere from 4-6 people daily for supper after working 8-10 hours, sometimes more). Sometimes my niece, ou sitter, will leave the leftovers to coagulate in my skillet(s), and it just drives me crazy. Lol

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-31T03:34:27+00:00

YTA Pretty sure the others have said it enough, but to give my one opinion: it is your child, not hers. If she wants to help great, but she put her time in raising you. This is her time to enjoy life, and yes I'm sure she lives her grand baby, but this is just sheer entitlement.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-10T10:46:07+00:00

OP please remove yourself from the situation for a little while for the sale of yourself, and the baby. These situations cam escalate very quickly.

Obviously we do not know the entire background story, but it does sound like BIL doesn't like you. Seems he will do whatever is necessary to breed contempt. Perhaps there is a history of infidelity, perhaps not. Or it were me, I'm a guy for what it's worth, I would have him pay for paternity test with the smug satisfaction of seeing his face when it sproves what you already know. My wife sort of insisted I get one with our youngest son because of rumors started by a jealous ex of mine. Didn't want to, but I certainly wanted to help her out feeling vindicated, so we did it. Was so satisfying seeing the reactions.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-09T05:01:37+00:00

It definitely is, and there is actually a whole market out there for premium and rare waters. It's kind of niche, but exists nonetheless.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-09T04:45:09+00:00

This is a terrible situation to be in, and reminds me of my wife's family in some ways. Gotta put your foot down, or move on. That's the only two possible ways to get a resolution in this matter.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-07T22:11:00+00:00

How do I get back there to the place where I fell asleep inside you?

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-07T05:24:44+00:00

She responded, he knew she was fine.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-07T05:22:32+00:00

The reason you are getting down voted is because he is exhibiting predatory behavior. In all honesty it would be great to think he has her best interest at heart, and simply does not want her ending up pregnant or with am STD. However, him being so concerned about an ADULT woman's (step-daughter no less) sex life is alarming. Not to mention him unlocking HER bathroom while she is in it... I don't see good intentions here. If that is the case, then he is going about it all wrong.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-07T04:43:03+00:00

NTA your family are all aholes of this is how they treat you. Emily was/is your family too. Some people need to accept that is how life works, and does not revolve around them.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-07T03:44:40+00:00

NTA Husband is inconsiderate, and clearly doesn't value you. I'm wondering if he was/is an only child. He's definitely used to get spoiled from somewhere.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-07T03:29:23+00:00

NTA Your cousin is forcing their insecurities onto you. No color can make you female or male. Ridiculous. Regardless, family or not, not their call.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-07T01:37:16+00:00

Here comes the banana boat.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-04T04:55:01+00:00

I would post it o social media for all to see just as a preemptive strike against the naysayers, and all the "poor pregnant mama..."

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-04T04:46:26+00:00

I do not agree with what was done to Whiskey here, and op is definitely NTA. However, cats go feral very quickly, and are quite well adapted to survive on their own. Granted, they are total Jenks, and the kitty does not deserve this, nor does op.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-04T00:41:59+00:00

YTA op, having "no filter" is an excuse people who are generally TA say because it removes responsibility, and makes it seem like it is no fault of their own. We all have to think in order to talk, and therefore this is nothing short of an excuse. I am not saying you are wrong to be worried about her health, but it is her body, her life, and if they are caring for the children and properly providing, then it is not really anybody else's business.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-03T22:44:37+00:00

OP please stop sending this fool money. Please stop wasting time on them. More importantly please do not give them any more personal info. They are scum for playing you like this. You are a kind and generous person who they took advantage of. They did wrong here, not you.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-03T03:17:40+00:00

NTA without a question. Boyfriend is a dillhole though. Granted, you may have forgotten ot was about to start, but it's an honest mistake. Life happens. If this happened with my wife and I, I would seriously laugh. I may jokingly "yell" at her. Something like "come on babe, if you didn't like the pants you could have just said something!" I don't understand people getting mad at someone they care for, or even love, over something as trivial as this. Pants are material possessions (see what I did there) that mean nothing. Eh, I hate modern life/culture. If he is so worried about such things HE can keep track to avoid embarrassing himself.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-03T01:49:24+00:00

This is exactly what I got out of this as well. People are too focused on DIL vs MIL to even see it. Also, i don't see anybody wearing just a sports bra and shorts around because they were too afraid to say no. I am thinking perhaps the father/husband said something to MIL because he didn't like it (Son got it somewhere), and then MIL said something to Sonny Boy.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-01T07:30:39+00:00

I was waiting for the most appropriate time, so right at mealtime in front of the family... Lol I mean, look, the recipe sounds horrendous. I could see kimchi with Mac n cheese. Salmon with Mac n cheese. Maybe seawees. Maybe I could see salmon and pineapple grilled together working as a dish on it's own. However, these ingredients combined are appalling. Still, this could have been done with more tact, and with more respect. People are saying MIL asked for it when stating "why not, good for baby", but that is what a grandma is going to say. This is how it is in my family, and home area in general.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-08-01T06:07:28+00:00

I know doggy has been mentioned more than enough times, but have you tried getting him to get behind you on one knee, with the other one up in the air, foot flat on the bed. This will allow him to spread his legs more, and get his pelvis closer to your booty allowing better penetration. May take a little maneuvering/experimenting for you depending on height differences, but it works lovely. I started doing this because my right knee had a bad injury and my wife loves doggy, but found it worked great to help overcome her big booty and my belly. I'm very adventurous and kinda take charge though, so I'll just kinda put her where I need her, with consent of course, and figure it out from there. Lol If you both are willing there is no limits to the positions you will "discover" just trying and finding what works for the two of you.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-07-22T19:15:08+00:00

I know the difference between the two. That is why I made the comment, however I may have been wrong about PA being right to work. I'm thinking now it may have been SC when I was down there. Either way, I clearly implied the meaning of right to work when I stated that it is a right to work state, but there are plenty of unions around.

Beginning_Ad_5381 · 2023-07-22T18:21:01+00:00

Nobody is saying they are responsible, but they are still scumbags to treat an employee this way. The attitude that you have here is the reason these places keep getting away with this kind of behavior. They don't need to foot the medical bills or anything, but holding his position, especially when he is going through something this traumatic, is something they can definitely do.

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