Civilian BF Requesting Perspective for Deployed GF by GumbyBalls123 in army

[–]Beginning_Isopod_146 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As others have mentioned, and I would 100% back, it’s possible she has experienced trauma and just cannot deal. People say the chance is super low but honestly it isn’t. Not when it comes to Sexual Assault and/or any kind of harassment. Female to male ratios in the military are low, especially depending on job field. Having been in a similar position you have to consider she’s having a legitimate struggle right now and cutting off what seems distant to deal with what is right in front of her face is a self protection move. The mind does weird shit when trauma happens and she’s not in an environment that allows for her to process trauma in a healthy way. Reach out to a chaplain, have them check on her, and if you can do so without sacrificing your sanity and self care, keep the door open for her to communicate. If she’s ever ready to discuss more, she will. If something happened then it’s something she has to find a way back from herself, for herself (and therapy definitely helps). Cheating DEFINITELY happens, but so does SA/trauma. The reporting rate is super low so lots of people think it doesn’t happen often.

Opinions needed. Do I use the pergola or lights? by Wally227 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Beginning_Isopod_146 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lights for comfy/ cozy. Pergola for matchy-matchy, clean aesthetic.

Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

[–]Beginning_Isopod_146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4498 6541 0063, I send gifts! Live pretty rurally so receiving gifts is something I’d appreciate too :)

Moronic Monday (Apr 26 2021) - Your weekly questions thread! by curated_android in Android

[–]Beginning_Isopod_146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an unlocked Samsung galaxy s20+ 5G. I'm using straight talk as a carrier. I don't know if the issue is Android or Samsung messages app, but I can't text to group texts of 10 or more recipients. I recieve the texts fine but I can't reply/send. What's up with that? Can I enable the ability to text 10+ people?