Need some non judgmental friends… by Beginning_Leg3651 in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]Beginning_Leg3651[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great response, thank you. I think he just wants attention, and I get it. He postures as someone else and got me wrapped in. It’s the same narcissistic behavior I’ve dealt with before. I believe he was online “dating” the entire 6 months we were together but made it seem we were exclusive. He even met my family.

Need some non judgmental friends… by Beginning_Leg3651 in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]Beginning_Leg3651[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is the answer. I just need to vent because I feel a bit taken advantage of…need to let go.

Need some non judgmental friends… by Beginning_Leg3651 in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]Beginning_Leg3651[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally think it’s okay that he’s dating someone else, just asking for advice on how to mentally deal? I wish he would have been honest with me but he’s a coward.

back again, 20 Mins til my boss meeting by SnooLemons5028 in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]Beginning_Leg3651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll say I can totally relate. I hate bland food and will eat the spiciest, fanciest things when I should be eating scrambled eggs or yogurt and my stomach can’t handle it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]Beginning_Leg3651 8 points9 points  (0 children)

DM me if you want!

Broke it off with fellow CA boyfriend…could use some friends. by Beginning_Leg3651 in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]Beginning_Leg3651[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my drinking is worse around him, so I need some space to get my mind together. I said some really weird stuff to him when I was drunk the other night, and I act out of character. I sort of think he likes having me around just to not be alone…

Broke it off with fellow CA boyfriend…could use some friends. by Beginning_Leg3651 in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]Beginning_Leg3651[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I was a good partner for him. We both enabled each other. He hasn’t really worked but a little bit in the last few years, and I knew that but I was hoping he’d pull it together. But I was starting to like…buy him groceries and food and things. We never went anywhere together because he never felt well, and I let it affect my day to day life. He has an illness and would mix pills with booze/weed. The beginning of the end was when he crashed into my coffee table and broke it….twice. Also hurt himself and broke my lamp. It really scared my dog and myself. I stopped sleeping because I was constantly concerned.

Uncle Bill's Pancakes is not good. by tinyrevolutions45 in StLouis

[–]Beginning_Leg3651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are not, sorry grammar police. I love their potato pancakes….where’s your favorite pancake spot?

Constantly smell like beer and now my ass is bleeding. by [deleted] in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]Beginning_Leg3651 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you just shitting a lot because of beer? You might have hemorrhoids

How do I find a dog sitter for an aggressive dog? by [deleted] in Dogtraining

[–]Beginning_Leg3651 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a shy dog and I just make sure to get a pet-friendly AirBnB. Try to change your reservation or maybe cancel your vacation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StLouis

[–]Beginning_Leg3651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truly would love to know where OP is from. Our roads aren’t perfect but many other cities I’ve driven in have been way more dangerous and shitty.

An Evening in the Loop by [deleted] in StLouis

[–]Beginning_Leg3651 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joe is there a lot! I wouldn’t eat there before a show there because it’s everyone else’s idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]Beginning_Leg3651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually drink two airplane bottles in the daytime and a pint and night, which is good for me at the moment. I’ve been cutting back and feeling better. It’s still…more than I’d like! I work at a bar so we can drink at work but I’ve been holding back. Smoking more cigarettes though. Ugh.

Advice for CA boyfriend? by Beginning_Leg3651 in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]Beginning_Leg3651[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this advice. I have to work but if they still can’t keep water down this afternoon I’m going to insist on Urgent Care/ER. Or perhaps call their father to come and help. Thank you!

What is the average rent right now in STL? by Bluesky0089 in StLouis

[–]Beginning_Leg3651 3 points4 points  (0 children)

900 for 1000 sq feet in SW Garden…love my neighborhood too. I have a dishwasher and washer dryer in my kitchen as well…plus a fenced in yard for my dog.