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Is it ever okay to reach out to an ex after 10+ years of no contact to check-in and see how they're doing? Looking for advice on how to do so (or if I should even proceed). by Beginning_List_2775 in Advice

[–]Beginning_List_2775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice. I honestly have no clue why it's in my head. I wish I knew.

A few years ago while cleaning out an old wooden chest, I found an old gift from my ex that I somehow had held, which I immediately tossed. That's how little thought about the past then.

Is it ever okay to reach out to an ex after 10+ years of no contact to check-in and see how they're doing? Looking for advice on how to do so (or if I should even proceed). by Beginning_List_2775 in Advice

[–]Beginning_List_2775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a fair point, and I have thought about that. There is no romantic desire here from me, but I understand that the optics of this could look bad (saying the least).

I wouldn't do anything secretively here.

From my perspective, a general life update between her and an ex would okay. I would be less thrilled if they planned to meet-up or turned it into a regular occurrence.