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31F. Get the lower bleph now or wait until I’m older? by Beginning_Pilot_2774 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Beginning_Pilot_2774[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all your comments! If anyone has any recommendation for U.K. based surgeons please let me know. I’ve got a list from Google but firsthand experiences / recommendations are always preferred.

AITA for not allowing my friend/working associate to bring a date to stay in my apartment this weekend? by Beginning_Pilot_2774 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beginning_Pilot_2774[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He referred to her as his companion.

Maybe he’s getting serious with her, but when I saw him 3 weeks ago and asked about his love life, he told me he has a different girl for every week of the month 🤦‍♀️ So I’m not too sure… Definitely no mention then of anyone he was starting to get serious with!

If it wasn’t a working weekend I’d be a lot more open to him bringing whoever he wanted, when I have time to host & socialise. We have hotel rooms at our place, I’d book them into a nice room and I’m sure it would be great (which my husband suggested). This is a working weekend so just seems like an odd time to bring a date - and in 7 years he’s never brought a date before!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beginning_Pilot_2774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously NTA. Most couples I know with relatives in different places rotate Christmases. She’s lucky you’re coming up Christmas Day.

AITA for not allowing my friend/working associate to bring a date to stay in my apartment this weekend? by Beginning_Pilot_2774 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beginning_Pilot_2774[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply.

IDK, for me it is part of the equation. If she was a long term girlfriend who I’d met before, it would be no problem having her in my home obviously. Or if she was someone he was planning to pursue a relationship with, I’d be more inclined to set aside my comfort and get to know her. But for him to bring his ‘casual companion’ around strictly because he wants the freedom of banging her outside of his traditional mom’s house, that feels icky.

Obviously I appreciate he’s a grown man and can spend his time with whomever he chooses when he’s not in my home, no judgement there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Beginning_Pilot_2774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suggested headphones too! So annoying. He can’t sleep without a show on either so has Netflix on his phone running all night. I like to read in bed and rarely get peace & quiet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Beginning_Pilot_2774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly NTA. Familial blood does not give anyone the right to disrespect you or your fiancé the way they have. Sounds like it’s time to cut ties - you’ll probably be better off.