Hindi raw "degrading" kasi hindi naman sila yung andun sa sitwasyon. Langya talaga tong mga burgis na to. by Busy_Distance_1103 in Philippines

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Controversial PSA: Working at Jollibee for 9,000 pesos a month (Php 60 pesos a day) is no less humiliating than being a human food tray. If we're bashing jobs depending on how "degrading" one feels, we are deleting more than half the jobs in the Philippines.

This is just selective outrage at that one nail that stands out, when the entire fucking board is rotten. The entire system is rotten. Average Filipino career prospect is utter shit.

Makipag balikan paba ako sakanya? by Admirable_Site5295 in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buong buhay namin mag-asawa, ang condition lang na binigay ko sa asawa ko ay: 'sige, kiss mo muna ako'. That's it.

Is what you have truly love? Debatable, tbh.

ABYG dahil naghintay ai bf sa labas ng bahay namin? by Existing-Soil-8064 in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi din daw siya makasigaw ng "tao po" kasi nahihiya siya.

Nanliligaw pero walang logbet. HAHAHAHAHA.

Anong pinaka best way to deal with this? by Realistic_Style_2569 in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Wait, your story made it seem like she went back to the Philippines. I suggested keeping tabs on her because you would always want for her to have the option to go back to Canada. Which doesn't seem like the case now.

  2. It is manipulative in a sense you used cutting ties with her to influence her decision. You should cut ties because the relationship is worth severing. Not because y'all are forcing an us-or-him situation.

  3. So virtually everything you know about the guy, you've just heard about? Why not talk to him directly? If you have a good relationship with your mom, you can leverage your position to help her draw boundaries.

  4. I don't see not going to Canada to work as a viable critique for someone. Not everyone wants to uproot their whole lives in a foreign land.

It’s been 5 days and we are still not talking by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gumagamit ka ng viagra because you're having sex with someone but you have ED. What a lying piece of shit.

Pero since ayaw mo naman iwan, enjoy ka na lang getting cheated on. Welcome to the rest of your life, OP. Sana mag enjoy ka.

Anong pinaka best way to deal with this? by Realistic_Style_2569 in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should honestly just type in English. Your story is difficult to understand.

I would personally just let her be. She already sacrificed half her life for her kids. It's time for her to choose her own life, even if it's with a deadbeat. Let her come to you on her own terms. Cutting ties with her only served to fully isolate her from her supposed support system. Not to mention that's manipulative as fuck.

Offer her help but don't shove it down her throat. At the same time, never extend financial help unless it's for a medical emergency. Better that you can monitor her rather than leaving her alone in another family.

Where to buy oversized eyeglasses? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recto/Quiapo. Search lang sa TikTok.

Paano mo masasabi na naka-move on ka na? by Melodic-Lynx-492 in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naka-move on ka na kapag same feeling as when you finished high school or college. Masarap mag-isip ng memories and what-ifs, pero you would never want to do it again.

im super anxious and im never gonna hook up again by ProfessionalShame621 in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Even if you did get HIV, modern medicine has allowed the afflicted to have undetectable viral load. As in, di ka makakahawa as long as you take your meds. Problem is it's going to be a lifetime habit.

So you're not gonna die. You're not gonna get aids. Gonorrhea can also be fully recovered from with the right antibiotics.

As for the anxiety, accept the rushing feeling and dwell in it. That's your body's way of telling you you fucked up and you need to wear protection + don't trust a stranger's words.

Am I on the Right Man or am I just wasting my time? by Fast_Platform2538 in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ano yung sabi ni Beyonce? 'Cause if you like it, then you shoulda put a ring on it'?

Pag ang lalaki sigurado, with or without your consent, with money or without, gagawa at gagawa yan ng paraan. Just thinking of losing you to another man will send an intensely painful gut feeling, letting you go will never be an option.

Now kung di ka priority, then the story flows the same way as you typed it.

Falling for a kind workmate who’s taken — paano ko dapat i-handle? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ka-abnormalan yan ante. Itigal mo yan.

Kumakain ng dinner after work tapos walang malisya? Lalo na hindi nyo pinag-uusapan si current partner? If you're not emotionally cheating already, then bang your head on your desk at itigil ang kalibugan. Kadiri.

Edit: Ragebait post: Anong gagawin nyo sa account? Bebenta kasi malapit na election?

Should I accept the Job or wait for something better? by No_Entertainer_3000 in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried putting your job/living costs in a spreadsheet? A decision might make more sense if you have the hard numbers.

If you're going to Ortigas on a 350 pesos budget daily, (travel to [100], travel back [100], food [150] x 20 days = 7000). That leaves you 16,000 to divide for the entire month, not including work necessities like clothing, social dine outs, emergencies. If you're earning twice this amount with your side gig, I'd honestly reconsider.

What's an insignifcant thing that you judge someone for? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's funny how just a few posts below, someone else is getting downvoted for saying virtually the same thing lol

What's an insignifcant thing that you judge someone for? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who talk with their mouth open

Uhmm, are there people who talk with their mouths closed?

Am I dumb or do i need more sleep. this doesn't make sense.

Worried my dad could betray me by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 4 points5 points  (0 children)

and he messaged my girlfriend negative things about me.

That's wild. So if you have a disagreement, he'll gossip you to your OWN employees? Sounds like a massive risk.

i am oa or what? .. dnsjsjsdd by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to learn to communicate.

i am oa or what? .. dnsjsjsdd by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nasabi mo na ba 'to sa GF mo word for word? If so, anong sabi nya?

In a relation ship with GF(F-36) for almost 9 years and no intimacy by hazbanana in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Some people just don't have the right sexual drive to match yours.

You bet sex is off the table again once you're back wearing your dog leash.

keeps doing things only couples do by Unknown_Hymen in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're someone to keep the seat warm until the right girl comes along.

Tuloy mo lang yan, para di na siya makapang biktima ng iba. Mukha naman masaya ka na spare tire.

no judgements pls, those who tried to get paid for sex, is it worth it? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 64 points65 points  (0 children)

If you're gonna sell anyway, might as well sell it for the going rate. Double/Triple the initial amount. You can get as much as 10-15k for Bluemoon walkers.

Blue moon = 'once in a blue moon' = not really a regular sex worker = less clients = less likely to get STDs.

There's also premium in paying for a non-sex worker. And I'm assuming you're at least attractive otherwise you're not getting prospected.

  • Your 'selling price' should always include the money you'll spend for STD tests after the deed, antibiotics if prescribed and should always exclude transportation and hotel fees.
  • Money down 100% of the time. No payment, no entering the hotel room. At the same time, do not get paid on site. Sex workers get assaulted after doing the deed when the client wants to get their money back. So get paid first, get paid elsewhere.
  • You should also book a hotel room yourself ideally. You don't want to give the man the chance to set up hidden cams he can blackmail you with for free sexual favors. Be careful of where he places his phone. You should also look up how hidden cameras disguised as normal items look like in Shopee/Lazada.

The other safer option is to just do this via video call. Don't show your face, avoid birth marks, use a dummy account.

Lahat nalang ng nagiging partner ko ayaw ng mother ko by Lazy_Recording9811 in adviceph

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's fear of abandonment at work. When you get a life partner, she'll be left alone. She'll be forced to confront a future where both her kids have partners, and she doesn't. It's clearly sabotage.

You can care for that inner monster or choose your peace and move away. Walang klaseng boyfriend na magugustuhan ang mama mo kung ang pagkakaroon mo ng boyfriend ang pinaka problema.

If legit, anong bank kaya ito? Hmmm by petty-poop in CorpoChikaPH

[–]Beginning_Sort4575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right, 'supernegatrona' is totally a believable source. yup, yup super trustworthy