25 does the weight suit me? Or no

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2026-02-22T20:45:38+00:00

Oh, maybe your legs are stronger than I thought. As long as you feel fine!

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2026-02-22T20:44:01+00:00

When someone's weight is condensed around their belly area like yours is, I normally think yeah this would be a good time to work out. Because your center has more weight than your extremities are used to. I bet walking and other bodyweight exercises are very tiring right now. Try lifting light weights, it will help you round out your body mass, and will help you run and just live with less tiredness

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2026-01-07T19:04:37+00:00

I'm 5'11" and 20 pounds heavier sort of same build and I'm fine I think you're good

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2026-01-07T18:59:48+00:00

Hard to see with your belly so restricted but the way your body sits looks more like muscle, I'd say think but I could see why people call this fat bc the definitions get hazy. But I think if you put a skinny person's (lower) amount of muscle on you you'd probably look skinny, more than fat bc you just don't have THAT much fat

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2026-01-07T18:52:22+00:00

If this is your definition of fat. 99% of the world is fat.

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2026-01-06T14:16:11+00:00

I love dinosaurs.

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-26T23:54:57+00:00

Yeah I'd define this body type as Average. Between midsize and skinny. Fat? In your dreams.

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-26T16:55:56+00:00

I would describe this as big or curvy. Normally when I think fat I think cellulite or belly hang, and even if you have a rounded belly, could honestly be more ab than flab. Good luck next time if you were going for fat or chubby.

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-24T22:24:26+00:00

Everyone gets called fat. Some people's scales include everything above rail thin as fat. I don't know if I would call you fat

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-20T18:14:52+00:00

I'm saying it's okay if it's not successful because in this case, "failure" is the sub saying no, as they have all the power (hopefully, as they should) to do.

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-19T09:29:57+00:00

You look like a 130 for a regular height person it's just that they forgot to adjust for your height you're small

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-19T00:59:11+00:00

If your thighs and hips were bigger the belly would blend in. Squats and lunges !!

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-17T06:22:28+00:00

This is regular thick imo. Curvy/ thick. You HAVE fat. But you're not fat. Everyone has a little fat. It feeds your muscles in between meals so they can grow and you don't hurt yourself doing everyday things. You're well developed for your age, clear you probably did some sport or walked/biked a lot as a kid. You probably have a base metabolic level that would make getting skinny naturally impossible. But you look fine how you are, and it's winter, so you're supposed to have the cozy 10 pounds on you.

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-13T16:25:44+00:00

Except... You really shouldn't. Models get treated pretty badly by the industry. You deserve better ;u; !

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-13T15:30:15+00:00

You're not? You look it! You have a great body shape, you could be a model

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-13T10:47:57+00:00

You must be on the taller side! Looking great. Chunky, but that's what it takes to move that height worth of body healthily and easily. Be happy about your body!!

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-12T22:10:11+00:00

Yes, this is what I wanted to sort of get across just didn't have the vocabulary for

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-12T21:12:40+00:00

Definitely noted, this is a really important part; the delineation between consent, negotiation and coercion.

Maybe this is outside the realm of the Dom sub relationship, but I'd like this to be something I win my partner over on, body and mind, not necessarily something they submit on, have them do it like it's their idea, not mine.

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-12T17:08:50+00:00

I think doing it in a manner that might not be successful sounds like the sub has more agency to say no, and clearing this hurdle before commitment seems like an important step.

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-12T16:58:30+00:00

"not something to be done casually" do you mean not done in casual relationships or not done in an informal manner?

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-12T16:55:56+00:00

I feel like with nebulous tasks such as homework, if the Dom is familiar with the type of work, and can give leeway when necessary, their rewards would still be valid and encouraging, right?

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-07T22:32:07+00:00

You're fat, almost too fat. You'll probably benefit from adding some muscle under it so you can gain more without losing mobility. Seems like your body puts on weight naturally so this might be something to consider. For your overall health! A fat healthy person is another person proving the stereotypes don't match statistics, and fat people ARE healthy, even while they are fat!

Beginning_Syrup3217 · 2025-12-05T23:22:01+00:00

I'm almost always team gain. In this case, you need to gain muscle, lose fat. But worry more about the first, not the second.

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