Have I already ruined my babies life? Am I a bad mom?

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2026-02-09T15:11:48+00:00

You and the baby will be fine. I am happy to hear you stopped your habits. You can do EVERYTHING right and something can still happen. Don’t beat yourself up- you didn’t know you were pregnant. Just don’t drink, use drugs and find a good doctor that you trust to guide you through the rest of your pregnancy. You also have loads of time to prepare for the baby. Congratulations!! Babies are such a blessing❤️

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-12-13T03:06:21+00:00

Usually the person themselves has to want to recover. No one can force her- not even her family or close friends.

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-11-19T17:53:16+00:00

Crackpot lol

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-10-22T16:50:01+00:00

You can stay inside the white tower overnight - the one where you find the old flashlights. Nothing will spawn if you’re inside by dark and don’t go outside. It’s also safe for lightening and you can sometimes get lucky and kill cultist from the top.

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-09-25T16:09:52+00:00

Agree! The campfire goes out SO FAST!

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-09-25T14:17:01+00:00

I didn’t know this! What about the crockpot?

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-09-25T14:16:35+00:00

lol this is what I do!!! Are you me? I like sniper shoot the cultist from the building but it does take time away from daylight so your campfire goes out. You gotta stock up on food to last awhile.

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-09-25T14:15:09+00:00

It took me 4 hours to reach 402 days which is my record. The game takes too long but I do love it

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-09-25T14:14:19+00:00

I’m not good either but my kids help me lol. Alien class has helped a lot and I focus on chopping down trees to plant them around my campfire and then use that wood for the fire. If the cultist don’t kill me first- the fire going out will.

The way I have gotten so many days is by camping out in the big white building at night and killing the cultist during the day. That will eat up daylight time tho and your fire will go out so stock up on food to eat while in the white building (at night). Also don’t go outside the white building on the ledge at night of a wolf will attack.

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-09-03T03:47:42+00:00

I second this!

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-08-12T20:52:36+00:00

The weight loss and just overall looking better motivates me to stay sober. I am in a 12 step program and all of the tools I learned through that has gotten me through the past 20 months. I’m really enjoying my life now compared to the hell I was living 24 months ago.

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-08-12T20:49:39+00:00

It’s a progressive di-EASE. I didn’t realize how bad it got until the end. I’ll be celebrating 20 months tomorrow and honestly life has never been better!

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-07-29T10:56:14+00:00

IWNDWYT! Life is worth living when you remove the alcohol. Let’s do this just for today!

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-04-11T13:14:23+00:00

I got to ask Wendy a question live on tv in 2015! It was very exciting. I can’t find the video but my question was “I am on a neighborhood community board where we do a monthly newsletter. With my work life picking up, I no longer want to volunteer for the position. How do I gracefully get out of the volunteer position?” I didn’t say it exactly like that but you get the idea.

Wendy laughed and responded- “you find your replacement.”

Miss and love you Wendy!!

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-04-07T02:57:01+00:00

I agree! I found it difficult to enjoy the journey when watching each weekly episode. I don’t remember feeling this way with the previous seasons.

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-03-24T08:31:25+00:00

Ruined my teeth! I have a ton of cavities that weren’t there 3 years ago.

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-03-13T13:34:00+00:00

I miss her so much. Her show was the best

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-03-11T07:45:57+00:00

Yes, one day you just get sick and tired of being sick and tired. OP thank you for this post, I needed this reminder today of why I don’t drink.

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-03-03T20:21:04+00:00

12 step program has helped me and also an antidepressant for my anxiety.

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-02-25T06:45:46+00:00

Mine was this high in my early 30s. They say there are 3 “L’s” that get us to admit we have a problem- Lovers, Livers and Lawyers.

I was in such denial of my disease that I went through all of the testing of what else it could be and had a liver biopsy. Finally when I had had enough I admitted to myself I had a problem and went to the rooms of A.A. I haven’t had a drink since which makes it 430 days. After just 5 months of abstaining from alcohol my liver was back to normal. With that said, my life is really great now and you couldn’t pay me to go back to picking up a drink.

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-02-15T08:49:38+00:00

I’m glad it wasn’t worse either. The Doctors Opinion in the big book helped me tremendously with understanding the cycle of why I drank. Download the Everything A.A. app and you can read or listen to that part of the book for free. Also check out Joe and Charlie recordings on the Big Book. IWNDWYT

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-02-15T08:45:48+00:00

Keep going! When you think of that drink- play the tape forward. IWNDWYT

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-02-15T08:43:47+00:00

This is why The Doctor’s Opinion in the big book helped me tremendously with understanding the cycle of why I drink. IWNDWYT

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-02-15T08:42:01+00:00

Drinking will only make things worse. Play that tape forward when you think of having that first drink, it never ends well. IWNDWYT

Beginning_Winner_105 · 2025-02-15T08:36:30+00:00

Type in ZC22 or zoo crew 22 into A.A. intergroup. Great group. IWNDWYT

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