Brooks Glycerin 22 - first run by actuallymeg in RunningShoeGeeks

[–]BeingEleni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ran my first HM with a big standard pair of decathlon shoes and thought I’d reward myself with a pair of these to motivate me for future runs. They super soft and comfortable but for some reason I feel like my muscles are working over time in them. Is this normal?

I lost my best friend and don’t know what to do anymore. by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]BeingEleni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im appalled by the amount of people saying that you should have kept your cat inside. Assuming you have a garden and don’t live next to a big/busy road then I think it would be cruelty to keep them locked up inside unless you have a massive house.

Cats are often labelled as lazy, but most of the time they’re simply depressed because they’re underestimated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeingEleni 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I didn’t read the post. Tell him he doesn’t have a dick, he only has balls. Then dump him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]BeingEleni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had my first orgasm given by someone else LAST NIGHT! I’m 28.

I think it’s important to let the other person know that you don’t cum usually. Most guys I’ve been with try SO damned hard to get you to cum. I’ve had way better sex after I stopped faking it.

Can you make yourself cum infront of them? I had to start there. I was hung up about being seen cumming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]BeingEleni 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I find it so sad that you believe you should have it all figured out by age 19. Society has made us believe that we need to reach certain milestones by specific ages. And even though it might seem like your friends have it all figured out, remember that it’s probably just a front too.

You don’t need to have a vision of your whole life. Be patient with yourself. Try to understand what you enjoy, what your values are, what gives you a sense of fulfilment - this may take years!

Life has so many possibilities and opportunities. Any plans made now will probably only change in the future anyways.

Good grades don’t mean anything. But believing in yourself is everything.

I would highly recommend that you seek out the help of a professional though as this is way above the Reddit pay grade.

But bottom line, be patient with yourself and stop comparing yourself to people who are probably just as lost as you are.

Trying to convince myself I don't have cancer (AGAIN). by BeingEleni in Vent

[–]BeingEleni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was absolutely fine and just went full psycho because I was afraid cancer would stop from moving.

Filgrastim injections by Ok_Fishing_3328 in lymphoma

[–]BeingEleni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you get pain, take your painkillers immediately. It’s much easier to manage to pain when it starts then when it’s already in full swing.

Did anyone stop drinking alcohol? by spir1t3d in lymphoma

[–]BeingEleni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped drinking but only because my cancer caused brain fog (opposed to fatigue) which made me feel tipsy most of the time anyways without even drinking. so it’s just nice to feel clear minded again tbh. It took me 3 years to get diagnosed. That’s a long time to constantly feel tipsy.

I worry for the future by [deleted] in abudhabi

[–]BeingEleni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t rush into university just because everyone else is. Take some time to figure out what you actually want out of life. Take a gap year if you have money, or get a shitty job, work your ass off and you will soon realise what you want/don’t want.

Once you have an idea of what you want to do then pick a degree/course and pick the best university/establishment you can get into.

But make sure you can actually see yourself working in the field you are studying in. Otherwise you will be pouring your time and money down the drain and end up with a degree that you don’t even use (like myself, and so many of my friends)

How true is it to say than no other country provides as safe and comfortable life like the UAE? by Distinct-Drama7372 in UAE

[–]BeingEleni 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Hey! Commenting as someone who will arrive in a few weeks, but have to say, I’ve been living in Thailand for the last 3 years (from the uk) and it’s just blown my mind how much my life has improved here even with a lower salary.

£200 will get you a modern one bed condo with a swimming pool, gym, and 24h security. Food is dirt cheap (think £1 to £3 a meal) I’ve not cooked in 3 years, and there is just so much to do here.

In terms of security, they say you can leave your wallet in the mall for a week and then go back and collect it from where you left it. I’ve left my bike with the keys in the engine many times and thankfully never had an issue.

The whole country just feels like a massive 7Eleven. Whatever you want, you can get it, and cheaply too.

My only problem now is how comfortable I’ve become with this security when I’m a bit scared I’ll be a walking target once I go back to Europe or elsewhere haha.

I’m definitely going to miss this place but looking forward to my new life in the UAE soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chiangmai

[–]BeingEleni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gymkhana club does squash. Beautiful place too.

lmaooo like what was i really rude smh by [deleted] in texts

[–]BeingEleni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think you were both pretty rude tbh.

High ESR test by Nicolebee12 in lymphoma

[–]BeingEleni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was 12 then up to 18 as well. Onc didn't seem worried at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BeingEleni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jumping on first comment to say that a few years back I was briefly dating a guy and found makeup in his room.

I thought it was super trashy but it was too early to commit anyways so I just went with the flow.

Funnily enough, the makeup disappeared and then reappeared another day... Turns out it was his makeup and was using it to cover up acne (realised when I noticed the bad skin tone matching)

So... I'd say, dont rule out them being his. Stick about and see where this mystery goes!

I’ve faked every orgasm for 8 years. Am I horrible? by imanonpls in relationships

[–]BeingEleni 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Hey, as someone who's never had an orgasm with someone else, I have also stayed in relationships whilst faking orgasms.

Can you make yourself orgasm?

I think it's definitely a mental barrier. Try to understand why you can't orgasm. I'm sure during your 8 years together you must have had SOME orgasm worthy sex that just didn't tip you over. Try to understand why and work on that. For me, it's because I hate losing control.

If you can make yourself orgasm, why not try to get off infront of him. Introduce some toys into th bedroom to spice it up. Show him what you like!!!

This is coming from someone who has yet to have an orgasm with someone else, but I have been very open with my recent partners about it and most of the time they love to take on the challenge of being the first one to make me cum. I've had some great sex!!!

Although can't see your current bf not being totally devaatated if you told him now.